How shady is this? What do you think?
I was telling some of my friends that I havent seen in a long time the other day about how I thought it would be so easy to meet guys in the city, and it has been worse then ever! All the guys I seem to meet are jerks or I am just not attracted to them at all. Anyway, to get to the point, I am interested in all of your opinions about this one guy that I went out on a few dates with and what you think about it.
One day, I was in this fast food place when this really cute guy started talking to me while we were waiting for our food. We chatted for like 15 minutes, I gave him my #, and about a week later we went out. It went pretty well, he was very nice, respectful, the works. He says he wants to see me again, and we plan another date. He calls me and plans a date for like a week later, says that he has a conference to go to. OK, thats cool. After that date, he wants to go out again, only has one night available, and then he is going on another conference. Ok, we go out, and then I went back to his place. (NO WE DIDNT DO ANYTHING EXCEPT KISS). He 'lives' in this apartment that is just 2 bedrooms, no living area, with a female roomate that he doesnt even know, she is some random person on Craigs list that he found. OK, fine, maybe he is just trying to save on rent I think. He has a stack of magazines on his dresser for an address to a long island town, and he says that is where his parents live. Ok fine, so then we plan another date. Again, he has another 'conference' and it is going to be another week until he can see me again. So we go out again, and then after that I just didnt bother anymore, I just couldnt shake the feeling that this guy is married and I dont want to be any part of it! Its not like I would ever ask him, like he would admit it!
I totally think this guy was married!! First of all, I dont think he really lives at this place he took me, besides the magazines to the address on LI, I seriously doubt that someone that makes over 200k lives here. I know that probably sounds materialistic, but I dont know how anyone could live in one room that is not a studio apartment when they could very well afford to at least have a living area with a TV and all! I think this is just a place that he has when he is in the city for work and is too tired to come home. I know for a fact that medical conferences are like once or twice a year at most for any particular specialty, they are not once a week. And the times that we went out are always during the week, never on the weekend. He was a handsome guy and all, it wouldnt suprise me if he was already taken.
Maybe I was jumping the gun here, but what do you think?
One day, I was in this fast food place when this really cute guy started talking to me while we were waiting for our food. We chatted for like 15 minutes, I gave him my #, and about a week later we went out. It went pretty well, he was very nice, respectful, the works. He says he wants to see me again, and we plan another date. He calls me and plans a date for like a week later, says that he has a conference to go to. OK, thats cool. After that date, he wants to go out again, only has one night available, and then he is going on another conference. Ok, we go out, and then I went back to his place. (NO WE DIDNT DO ANYTHING EXCEPT KISS). He 'lives' in this apartment that is just 2 bedrooms, no living area, with a female roomate that he doesnt even know, she is some random person on Craigs list that he found. OK, fine, maybe he is just trying to save on rent I think. He has a stack of magazines on his dresser for an address to a long island town, and he says that is where his parents live. Ok fine, so then we plan another date. Again, he has another 'conference' and it is going to be another week until he can see me again. So we go out again, and then after that I just didnt bother anymore, I just couldnt shake the feeling that this guy is married and I dont want to be any part of it! Its not like I would ever ask him, like he would admit it!
I totally think this guy was married!! First of all, I dont think he really lives at this place he took me, besides the magazines to the address on LI, I seriously doubt that someone that makes over 200k lives here. I know that probably sounds materialistic, but I dont know how anyone could live in one room that is not a studio apartment when they could very well afford to at least have a living area with a TV and all! I think this is just a place that he has when he is in the city for work and is too tired to come home. I know for a fact that medical conferences are like once or twice a year at most for any particular specialty, they are not once a week. And the times that we went out are always during the week, never on the weekend. He was a handsome guy and all, it wouldnt suprise me if he was already taken.
Maybe I was jumping the gun here, but what do you think?
