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terrylovesroy Posted:

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Hi Everyone, How soon do you send put STD? Not a destination wedding but we have a few coming for the weekend.

ladygoodman Posted:

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I'm sending mine out in february for my october wedding.

guitarstikibars Posted:

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i just sent mine out last week - i'm getting married in august.

terrylovesroy Posted:

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of so generally about 9 months in advance?

Angie2014 Posted:

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6-9 months in advance is usually the standard. Some people send them out earlier than that if they have a lot of OOT guests or if they are getting married on a holiday. I sent mine out last week, I'm getting married in August.

Jott1015 Posted:

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I'm a week before you and I will be sending mine Feb or March

amassiah11 Posted:

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I sent mine out last week, and I am getting married August 1, 2014. 6-8 months is pretty standard.

coffeeisgreen Posted:

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I sent mine out at the 11 month mark (last weekend of November) for an October wedding.

flynn14 Posted:

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I sent mine out 13 months in advance. I'm not the norm tho- we have 75 percent of our guests traveling

Alyssa M Posted:

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Etiquette-wise I believe 6-8 months is the norm. We did ours at 7 months since we didn't have a lot of OOT guests. If you have a lot of people coming from out of town/it's a holiday weekend then I think its perfectly acceptable to send them earlier than that.

katielynn Posted:

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Posted by flynn14

I sent mine out 13 months in advance. I'm not the norm tho- we have 75 percent of our guests traveling



This! Also we're getting married 12 days before christmas! I wanted my OOT guests to have PLENTY of notice and time for travel arrangements!
cets1290 Posted:

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i sent out almost a year out, a little closer to 11 months. this is because our wedding is on a holiday weekend

Soon2BeMrsMango Posted:

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I sent mine out at 10 months. I wanted to send them at the one year mark but certain family members wouldn't get me the addresses in time.

Jott1015 Posted:

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I also have heard if your date is around the Holidays it doesn't hurt to send out a little early. We have some out of state and out of Country (traveling from Germany!) family members and friends so I want them to have plenty of time to plan and save

kadymry Posted:

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we sent ours out 6 months prior

cconaty94 Posted:

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We sent ours about 10 months in advance. We have mostly out of town guests so I was going to send them right at the 1 year mark but FH's grandmother was very sick and then eventually passed away so I was staying sensitive to that. Im pretty sure some people put it on their fridge and wont look at it again until June, but others knew they had flights to book etc. so in my opinion early is always nice for the oots.

bridejackson22 Posted:

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We sent ours out second week of November for an October wedding.

KimnAndy Posted:

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Sent ours out September for a June wedding. Even with that some guests had already made plans and won't be able to make it. The good thing is since they have told us this, we were able to send some STDs to some of our B-list guests without them feeling like a B-list/last minute/fill in guest.

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