FSIL is 16...instead of being apart of the BP...what can she do to be involved in the wedding? I don't think she will do a reading during the ceremony and I think alot of other jobs (giving out programs, etc) isn't involved enough since she is FSIL.
Any ideas?
M_Berk-Glenn
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you can have her be a JR BM...are you doing a unity candle...maybe she can carry it dwn the asile
christine2010
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at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
since FH is an only child i don't have this but my brother will be walking my mom down the aisle & my SIL will be walking down the aisle with my two flower girls. this was everyone is included & it doesn't start any family drama.
MarjorieFrank
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The only other large way to involve someone in a wedding is to have them to a reading at your ceremony. I can't think of anything else.
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Posted by christine2010
at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
since FH is an only child i don't have this but my brother will be walking my mom down the aisle & my SIL will be walking down the aisle with my two flower girls. this was everyone is included & it doesn't start any family drama.
There is a whole long drawn out story but in a nutshell, FH doesn't want to involve any of his siblings in the BP (they are all teenagers), because he isn't close with them. At one point I was considering asking FSIL to be a bridesmaid, however FH has requested none of his siblings are in the BP. Now I'm stuck. I still wanted them to be involved on a small scale
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Posted by christine2010
at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
I agree....why not make her a Junior BM?
Soon2bShea
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Posted by Lsorrent
Posted by christine2010
at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
I agree....why not make her a Junior BM?
FH doesn't want her in the BP.
christine2010
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Posted by christine2010
at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
since FH is an only child i don't have this but my brother will be walking my mom down the aisle & my SIL will be walking down the aisle with my two flower girls. this was everyone is included & it doesn't start any family drama.
There is a whole long drawn out story but in a nutshell, FH doesn't want to involve any of his siblings in the BP (they are all teenagers), because he isn't close with them. At one point I was considering asking FSIL to be a bridesmaid, however FH has requested none of his siblings are in the BP. Now I'm stuck. I still wanted them to be involved on a small scale
in that case the only other thing left is to do a reading at church.
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Posted by Lsorrent
Posted by christine2010
at 16 in my opinion she should be part of the bridal party. when my brother got married i was 17 & my sister was 13 & we where both bridesmaids.
in past experiences with family & friends everyone has included their FBILs & FSILs as bridesmaids & groomsmen.
I agree....why not make her a Junior BM?
FH doesn't want her in the BP.
Sorry, we must've posted just at the same time. I'd say then a reading at church, or maybe even just a small token - like a corsage or something that she can wear during the wedding.
Christine N Ralph
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Why dont you allow her to make a toast at the wedding on the behalf of his family?
TheFutureMrsPM
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wrote before I read ur new post, sorry.
Tonys_Girl_03
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What about having a song dedicated to your FH siblings? Have the DJ announce that this song is for them. A fun song that the family can all dance too and take lots of pictures of it. Just a thought, it could be fun.
