how will you deal with Pt. II

How will you deal with people who don't RSVP but then show up to your wedding?

or

People who come with an uninvited guest?

This is a really touchy topic for me because I would neverrrrr go to an event that I had not RSVP'ed for. I don't think that I will have a lot of these with my guests but I want to be prepared for the worse.

I REFUSE TO OPEN UP MY GIFT ENVELOPES ON THE DAY OF THE WEDDING TO PAY FOR SOMEONE WHO DID NOT HAVE A TEENY-WEENY AMOUNT OF COURTESY TO RSVP (ESPECIALLY WHEN I GO THE EXTRA MILE OF PUTTING A STAMP ON THE RETURN ENVELOPE). I don't even plan on bringing my check book or debit card because I want all balances to be paid.

Call me whatever name in the book, but that person will have to pay up or leave. I'm not dealing with drama on my big day.

This is a tough one, because no one on my part of the list would bring a guest if they weren't invited with one, on fh's side who knows alot of them i have never met-so i would let that be something for him to deal with

And not rsvp'ing same thing, my list is shorter than his so, i think it could happen from his side, not soo much on mine

My balance will be paid in F.U.L.L. way before the wedding, so if someone shows up univited they're not walking in the door of that RH.

I'm sorry but I know your momma raised you to act all grown, and if you just show up on *MY* wedding day.... that's the last time you'll see me, that's for sure.