you got pregnant before the wedding? I was just reading o the 07 boards that a bride found out she is pregnant and her wedding is 54 days away. I would lose my mind. I just thought this would make a good topic.
Snowflake08
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it depends how far before the wedding it was FH and I were talking about starting to try about a month before - but i dont want to be 6 mos. pregnant walking down the aisle
cbcf
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oh man ....i def dont think it would be a good thing according to my parents...they would kill me especially since i will only be 23 when married and also because they are very catholic and believe in the no sex before marriage thing
as with FH and myself...we would take whatever comes our way. we know we love each other and want to be together the rest of our lives. so if we got pregnant i know we wouldnt not want to have it since it happened earlier than we would have like....we would def love being pregnant and readjust our lives accordingly and we would share in the joys of being pregnant together along with getting married and starting our lives off together as a family...
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Id be upset, dont want to worry about that while worrying about a wedding, Wedding stressful enough as it is!! I don't think it would be good for us, especially because we don't even know if we WANT kids... ever.... I think about this alot actually, because I am no longer on the pill for health reasons and have switched to diaphragm.... which I don't think is nearly as effective...
BUT if it happened I'd deal with it and FH would have to deal with it, and I'm sure we'd get through it....
Kimbalina
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FH and I dont plan on having children for a few years after the wedding, so I think I would be honestly SHOCKED
Super2star
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I think I would freak out too....I def dont want any babies for a few years...I am too selfish right now
jgl
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54 days wont be that bad.. she prob wont even show...
i dont think that would be a big deal.. more than that... i might not be too happy. but bottom line is.. whatever, we love each other we plan on having a family together.. we just messed up a little on the starting time.. hehe..
FancyMe1018
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no no no i wouldn't want to get prego because one i want to spend sometime traveling. I want to save and then know i am totally 100 okie with having a baby N hello you just got you dress sized down to a small now ur getting bigger???? after all you have pushed to be smaller?
LaurenF
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i think i'd FLIP OUT! i would NOT be happy!
Shell84
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I would not be happy about it. If I get pregnant just few weeks before the wedding it will be ok, because I won't be showing by then. The plan for us is to try after a year of being married.
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I think I would be a happy and a little sad. I kind of want to spend a couple of years with the fh before we have a baby. I want to travel with him and do things. I guess everything happens for a reason.
