sooooo my MOTHER went on another rampage..... now she's opposed to one of my bridesmaid's parents being invited. the only reason they are being invited is cuz her mom cornered me at her baby sower and said I better be invited..... so they're on the list.
My mom says no way Jose.... that she'll have to get over it.
What the HELL do I do now. They already think they're getting an invite I asked for the address already an everything!?!?!?
FML
Lsorrent
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Who the F corners you at a shower and says they better be invited????????
Sorry, if you're not close with your BM's mom, I wouldn't invite her. Especially if she's obnoxious like that. I am only inviting two of my BM's mothers. One because I'm close with her mom, and the other because she invited my parents to her wedding.
Relish21
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I used to be close with her ..... but then my friend moved away to North Carolina... so I've only seen her at major events, weddings, showers, etccc......
Was it ballsy and rude to say I better get invited yeah..... did I honestly think my mom would pitch a fit.... NO...... so honestly. I feel terrible!!!!!!!!!!!
Relish21
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PLUS I'm supposed to be inviting 2 other bridesmaids moms how can I invite some bridesmaids moms and not all of them??!?!? I really don't need this stress.... cuz of course FH agrees with my mom.
Relish21
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soooo... i'm thinkin that my Bm's parents will go on the B list and we'll see what kinda response we get. If questioned just gonna say you're welcome to come to the church but we had a strict budget to stick to.
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ita. B list em'.
You can DEF invite some of your bm's mom's and not others. I'm inviting one of my bm's entire family! (parents, grandmother, brother and his gf, and her sis and her husband). But i've also known these people since I was 5 and spent a lot of time with their family. My mom was invited to her wedding and actually sat at the head table with her parents and immediate fam. I'm not planning on inviting anyone else's parents.
There is one of the friend of mine (not in bp) where i'm also inviting her parents and brother b/c we've always been close with them all growing up.
Don't invite just because you were cornered. That's silly.
