i told him that his cousin FB'ed me and asked if she could bring her 1 y.o. daughter. (never mind the personalized response cards) i politely told her no cuz we have too many kids on both sides of the families.
he got pissed- why cant we just let her come? the RH wont charge us cuz she's 1. no big deal!
me: no big deal?!!? so when your 40 other cousins find out and bring their 250 childrens, it will be no big deal, right?
him: youre overreacting.
me: um, u really have 40 cousins. it will happen.
him: you're so negative. i cant beleive you wont let her bring her daughter.
me: seething inwardly up till this moment.
AngnShaun
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am i the only person where everyone with kids said they dont want them to be invited??! LOL
ETA: but i agree with you... you cant make exceptions with a family that big...
wenR
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He's clueless. Unfortunately this is not one of those times u want to let it happen and then say 'I told you so' Stick to your guns.
SoontobeGallagher
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You are right. If you invite one you have to invite them all. She has plenty of time to find a babysitter.
regy_k
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everything is no big deal to them oh Anthony.....
Jna2010
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youre def right though, you make the exception for one person, you have to do it for all
allornil
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oh..I see he's an Anthony...
I have an Anthony too and i WOULD have smacked him!
AwaitingAugust
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tell him that ti's not the money, it's just the fact that you don't want four bajillion kids running around, screaming and crying at your wedding ... maybe that'll help him see the light.
mariedsgn
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aw! Cate!
joctorre
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They really are clueless about certain things!!!
Lsorrent
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Posted by AngnShaun
am i the only person where everyone with kids said they dont want them to be invited??! LOL
ETA: but i agree with you... you cant make exceptions with a family that big...
Nope Ang......none of my guests want to bring their kids either, Works best for me
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Your right... you cant start saying yes to who ever asks you
