I am 6 months away...

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:33 PM

I am 6 months away...

as of Today. It i my 6 month to go mark & I am absolutely freaking - & I don't know why? Anyone else having a nervous breakdown????????

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:34 PM

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I am!! I'm having heart failure! lol I'm 30 days away...

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:36 PM

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OMG Marcella....how are you keeping it together? I really am losing it. I Yaked when I saw the calendar this morning!

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:40 PM

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I just don't want to be at work.. I have my head at being home and doing all the little things that need to be done.. I just want it all to be done already! I'm thankful that I did alot of the stuff beforehand, but now it's all the things that I couldn't do any earlier.. ugh..

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 02:48 PM

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I don't blame you. I wouln't like to be at work either. I just asked my boss how much time I will be able to take before the wedding & he says MAYBR a week.

aliciahelene Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:37 PM

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Im six months away today too!! Im just still overwhelmed because I want to get everything done by the summer..so Im crazy..its all I can focus on..planning and more planning! Marcella bellaI dont know how you can hold up with yoru wedding 30 days away! You must be so excited..Ill think Ill need some valiums soon!! Im just a nervous wreck..

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:41 PM

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I know.. I have knots in my stomach 24/7...it stinks.. and everytime I even start thinking about walking down the aisle, i get sick.. I'm soo scared about fainting!

EBM7 Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:43 PM

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I'm six month away (tomorrow) too and I'm bored to death!!! What is there to do at this point? I feel like I'm in that lull between getting all the vendors set and having to get down to details.

aliciahelene Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:46 PM

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That so funny!! I get nervous just thinking about it too..I keep syaing once I make it through the ceremony..Ill be fine! My sister receommended a few mimosas before..we drank a few before her wedding..she honeslty said it helped her. My biggest fear I have to walk down these stairs..Im so afriad I will trip and fall..Im pretty clutzy anyhow..so Im scared! The good thing is your finace will probably be just as nervous..so you can just look at each other..my problem is I cry when Im nervous, when Im sad, mad or happy..Im a friggin cry baby..and I dont want to be a cry baby bride ..but I know Im going to get nervous and just CRY..I cant control it..maybe Ill drink five bottles of mimosas instead!! So 30 days away Marcella, what do you have left to do?

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:50 PM

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I was never a cry baby before, but oh man I am like friggin Niagra Falls lately....I am going to look the the bride of friggin frankenstein by the time I get to the altar

I plan on starting my morning with a snifter of brandy.... that usually calms me

aliciahelene Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:53 PM

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hahahahhahah You are funny hearzbellz... Im crying alot lately too..must be nerves!! We definately need a support group..are there 12 steps to not freaking out?

kelly6273 Posted: Jul 09, 2003 03:59 PM

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OK GIRLS...STAY CALM...

I have to tell you...I am a perfectionist, a worry wart and a freak when it comes to detail. I went through all the same things you are going through. I drive an hour each way to work and I would blast the song I was walking down the aisle to and the song I danced with my Dad to everyday since I knew these would be my sensitive moments. Everyone told me that the walk down the aisle is the longest walk of your life, I just knew I would cry....WELL GUESS WHAT?......I didn't at all! I was so calm on my wedding day. Everyone was totally shocked. My mother even asked me if I took something (drugs). I loved walking down the aisle. It was great! You guys will be fine, don't worry. ENJOY IT! One word of advice...try to see your Dad's the day of your wedding before everything starts. My Dad brought breakfast to my house at 8am...I cried then...he both did. It was like we got it out of our systems.

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 04:02 PM

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That is good advice....

no dad though, but my brother & mom (who will share in the responsibility of giving me away) will be staying with me at the hotel the night before.... we are all getting ready together!

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 04:04 PM

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MarcellaBella.....I am sure you will be 100% fine. You seem like a very strong woman & I am sure if any 'concerns' do rear its ughly head, you will kick it square in the ......teeth

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 09, 2003 04:16 PM

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Hi guys.. My dad and my family (mom, sis and bm's) will all be together the day of..I'm getting ready at home.. and am having b-fast catered for everyone.. it's cute b/c dad doesn't know what to do.. I'm trying to make it special for himand mom, you know?

I know I'll be crying.I may be strong, but I'm also very emotional when it comes to this stuff and what's worse is that FH is EXACTLY the same.. he's not ashamed to cry and show his sensiivity.. it's cute..

I have to do my seating arrangements, finish up my tissue packs, all the to-do lists for my vendors, proof and print up my programs, and have my final meetings wth all my vendors..

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 09, 2003 04:29 PM

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awww, that is sweet Marcella. FH here does not EVR show his emotion... only once when I tried to break-up with him 3 years ago But he is made of stone, I swear.

You guys will be cute, I can't wait to see pics already!