I am a little annoyed at someone I used to work with...

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:02 PM

I am a little annoyed at someone I used to work with...

I am a little annoyed..I am sending out my Save The Dates and I e-mailed this woman who I used to work with to get her home address so I could send her one ...I e-mailed her over a week ago and still no response And I know she has been to her computer because I have gotten forwards from her...I am pissed and am considering crossing her off my list all together.

Oops...wanted to add...What should I do????

08/06 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:06 PM

Re: I am a little annoyed at someone I used to work with...

Depends how close you are or were to her and if you really want her there.

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:10 PM

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Posted by 08/06

Depends how close you are or were to her and if you really want her there.

08/06 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:24 PM

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Well then I'd try one more time, if she doesn't want ot come fine but at least you made effortS, if you don't get a response, I guess you have your answer. People seem to show their true colors at the strangest times!

seta Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:25 PM

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speaking for myself, i have overlooked some emails thinking they were jokes, spam etc.. why not try her once more and see what happens...

you can say something like..'not sure if you got my email last week...etc.'

good luck!

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:29 PM

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Posted by seta

speaking for myself, i have overlooked some emails thinking they were jokes, spam etc.. why not try her once more and see what happens...

you can say something like..'not sure if you got my email last week...etc.'

good luck!

October Bliss Posted: Sep 23, 2005 07:30 PM

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I am going through something very similar right now. She left job in March. I have made every effort to call her, keep in touch, set up lunch etc. She has cancelled and rescheduled all but once (the one time she didn't I had just gotten my e-ring and I told her if she cancelled I wouldn't call her again). My birthday was last week, and while we worked together she ALWAYS made such a big deal out of it, lunch, flowers, presents etc. This year I didn't even get a phone call. I crossed her off my list. I can't keep

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 23, 2005 08:48 PM

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Well I just sent her a second e-mail saying..'oh I wasn't sure if you got my last e-mai'...we'll see if she responds and if not OFF THE LIST and I will be very hurt and offended

NPTbride Posted: Sep 23, 2005 08:51 PM

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Have you tried calling her? Even though the email subject said Hi maybe she overlooked it or accidentally deleted it or it was flagged as SPAM or something. If she is someone that you care about I would call. If you really would rather have someone else then I say go ahead and move on.

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 24, 2005 08:59 AM

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beautyq115 Posted: Sep 24, 2005 09:01 AM

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Well I did hear from this lady and lets just say I am a supreme beoch...She had very good reasons for not e-maiing me and I feel like such as a$$

October Bliss Posted: Sep 24, 2005 09:24 AM

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Posted by beautyq115

Well I did hear from this lady and lets just say I am a supreme beoch...She had very good reasons for not e-maiing me and I feel like such as a$$

Until you heard from her you had no idea what was going on, so don't beat yourself up over it. Now that she has explained, and you are satisfied with her explanation, you can just let it go.