I am a little sad....

We invited 120 people. Only 65 are coming. That's half. I feel like why don't people care enough to come? I feel like such a loser.

Sorry just needed to vent.

You're not a loser. It's their loss not to attend what I am sure will be a beautiful wedding!!!!

I am sorry. No matter how many people are there you will have an amazing time. The only two people who matter is you and your FH but I can see how you are disapointed.

I know your sad and disappointed, but your day will still be great....

i was alil upset we had invited 230 and 155 rsvp'd yes...then the day of we had 11 people not show up..6 of which had a ridiculous excuse and can only confront us by email i suppose because of embarrassment..i was sad but...
lok at it this way..wouldnt you rather weed out who you are paying for and who you spend such an intimate day with?
sometimes we lose sight and start inviting our mothers bosses daughter..and it becomes more about a party then a marriage..
trust me, those 65 are worth more their weight in gold ;)

I understand your frustration and how sad you must feel, but it is their loss!!

Your wedding day will be beautiful - and the most important people will be there!

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Posted by Princess92406

trust me, those 65 are worth more their weight in gold ;)

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said it perfectly!

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Posted by Princess92406

i was alil upset we had invited 230 and 155 rsvp'd yes...then the day of we had 11 people not show up..6 of which had a ridiculous excuse and can only confront us by email i suppose because of embarrassment..i was sad but...
lok at it this way..wouldnt you rather weed out who you are paying for and who you spend such an intimate day with?
sometimes we lose sight and start inviting our mothers bosses daughter..and it becomes more about a party then a marriage..
trust me, those 65 are worth more their weight in gold ;)

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Wow, that was incredibly well-said!

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Posted by Princess92406
..and it becomes more about a party then a marriage..
trust me, those 65 are worth more their weight in gold ;)

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sometimes we encounter pearls of wisdom... this is just that.

they will be worth more than ANYTHING.

remember, you are marrying the man of your dreams.

and i know it will be beautiful

I am sure you will have a beautiful wedding regardless. This way you will be able too enjoy the time with everyone there and not be running around trying to say 'hi' to everyone-it makes for a less stressful day.

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Posted by Jackie&Justin

We invited 120 people. Only 65 are coming. That's half. I feel like why don't people care enough to come? I feel like such a loser.

Sorry just needed to vent.

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Oh yah,

Our friends got married in September. They invited 360 people...........90 showed!!!

She was so disappointed, but by the end of the night, she knew that it was a blessing in disguise as she had the time to talk to all of her guests and make it a more intimate evening......

Our friends got married in September. They invited 360 people...........90 showed!!!

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WOW....

It will be beautiful

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by Princess92406

trust me, those 65 are worth more their weight in gold ;)

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said it perfectly!

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totally! i love that quote! soooo well said!

I know you are sad but the only two ppl that count will be there and you will have a great time regardless who is there.

You are not a LOSER!!!!!!! You will have an amazing time! You will look beautiful and you're GETTING MARRIED! Don't feel sad. The people that can't make it are mising out!

Wow you girls really made me feel so much better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart!