about the bachelor party i know its going to be a serious one. Its a combo with another one of our friends thats getting married in july. 3 busses of boys(maybe men) are going to AC and staying in suites. I am going to have to be sedated that night. The thought of the girls is making me sick... anyone else feel this way?
micmar
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It's normal to feel that way, but it's really just a guy's night out. These girls do not mean anything & most men would not want to touch them anyway!!! Don't worry about it, go out w/ some of your girlfriends....
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i empathize with all teh brides to be dealing with this...im not worried about fh cause he doesnt wat one but he will have to go for his friend bp in a few months...i hope no ugly diseased fake girls there either
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uh yeah, i feel the same exact way you do. I think my only saving grace is that our best man is gay and he might not want to go to a strip bar........hopefully he'll be the one planning it! lol.
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I am not worried my FH I know wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship by why not have your bachlorette party the same weekend so that you can have fun and be with your friends and it will take your mind off of it a little.
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I am not worried my FH I know wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship by why not have your bachlorette party the same weekend so that you can have fun and be with your friends and it will take your mind off of it a little.
I agree...my BP will be the same night...so I'll be too drunk to care!
Seriously, sorry you're bummed...but think of your man and the love you share and how he wouldn't jeopardize you and your future for some skank.
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Gotta have a little faith...I am not worried about FH at all...I know he would never do anything...he is so sweet and innocent that he doesn't want to 'lie' to vendors and tell them we got a better price elsewhere in order to get them to come down in price!
May05Bride
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Don't worry about it! You gotta trust him!
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Posted by meredith24
about the bachelor party i know its going to be a serious one. Its a combo with another one of our friends thats getting married in july. 3 busses of boys(maybe men) are going to AC and staying in suites. I am going to have to be sedated that night. The thought of the girls is making me sick... anyone else feel this way?
No, not at all. I totally trust him and absolutely know that he would never do anything at his bachelor party - or any other time for that matter.
My FI takes marriage and fidelity seriously. He has one brother who has been with the same woman for 33 years, one that has been with is wife for over 20 years, one that was with his now deceased girlfriend for like 14 years and his parents were together for 29 years before his mom died. His dad remarried and has been with his new wife for like 20 years.
This assumes he even has a bachelor party since he does not want one and HATES strippers & surprises (so his 3 brothers and friends likely won't try to surprise him).
If you are still worried as it gets closer, have your party the same night to take your mind off it.
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I am definitly not worried about FH and most of his friends aren't even like that. They are just going out to D&B anyway. But, for those worried, I really think it is fair to expect nothing to happen, outside of maybe a strip show (because the other guys want it). Anything else in my opinion would not fly with me.
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you have nothing to worry about... i never really went to serious b-parties till last year. Now that i've done a few (including mine), they are overrated. Guys goign to have a little fun. You know exaclty what will happen. and i bet the two of you will discuss your nights.
why dont you get your girls to plan you a long night (or overnight) of fun like the boys are? have parties at the same time will enable you to forget that he is going out and doing the same thing.....
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Posted by micmar
It's normal to feel that way, but it's really just a guy's night out. These girls do not mean anything & most men would not want to touch them anyway!!! Don't worry about it, go out w/ some of your girlfriends....
My Fiance said that the last Bachlor Party he went to...the girls were so dirty looking....that when they asked the guys to lick whip cream off them....he darted for the door and headed to the casino...along with the groom.
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my fh is taking a limo to ac with his buddies also and i'm not worried about it..i hope he has fun because i know i'll be having a blast on mine!!! don't worry about him have yourself a drink and reveal in the fact that you and him are getting married instead!!
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don't worry about it...they will probably just be drinking and talking about their wives and girlfriends, he'll probably even call you continuously throughout the night...
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Thanks girls....
Soon2BMrsJoeF
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Try not to worry yourself to much, believe me I know that it is hard, My FH is going to VEGAS in August with all 8 of his groomsmen. Trust me, I was angry at first but then I just said ok then us girls are going to South Beach!!! Besides I trust him totally-He would never do anything to put me at risk for any reason.
