i am freaking alittle........................

because I just realized I have 5 months, and:

I have to loose 5 tons so i look stunning in my dress...........
I have to book a million vendors still...................
i have to pick music!! I don't even know what my wedding song is gonna be!!.....................The only song FH and I like together is from Micky Avalon 'all my friends and lovers are dead'.............not a good choice!
I need invitations....................
where am i taking my pictures????/.............................


HELP!!!!!

I'm guessing we all feel this way??? is this normal??

its normal dont worry but i have to lose 6 tons so ive just decided to have just exlax till the wedding dont worry u will get it all done in time

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Posted by gisellea

ah, i shouldnt have asked you about where to take pictures! lol, Kidding.

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don't worry Giselle haha you didn't put me over the edge

It's been on my mind the past week, because I am soooooo lazy lately, and have TOO much to do!!

Totally normally. I am the queen of procrastination. I didn't do favor till 2 days before my wedding. I didn't pick any of music for the dj till 2 days before. Everything worked out great. Just relax it all turns out great in the end.

My advice to all the brides to be, is all the details won't matter on that day, so get done what you can get done, and don't stress about what doesn't get done. On the day all that matters is you and your FH, its such a fun day, and its filled with so much happiness, trust me people don't notice the little things that you are stressing over now.

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Posted by MnM182008

Totally normally. I am the queen of procrastination. I didn't do favor till 2 days before my wedding. I didn't pick any of music for the dj till 2 days before. Everything worked out great. Just relax it all turns out great in the end.

My advice to all the brides to be, is all the details won't matter on that day, so get done what you can get done, and don't stress about what doesn't get done. On the day all that matters is you and your FH, its such a fun day, and its filled with so much happiness, trust me people don't notice the little things that you are stressing over now.

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ahhhhh! Thank you!
you are absolutly right, and brought me back to earth!

I feel that way now and I still have a little more than 8 months to go... so i guess when I get down to the 5 month mark I will probably be crying in fetal position.

Hang in there. You will get it all done.

Don't worry we are all in the same boat!!

My co-worker just gave me a Real Simple Wedding Catalog/ Planner 2009 and its awesome... I started reading it yesterday and it calm me down 75%... I love it and I suggest you get and try to get things into place...

Don't want to over do things...

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Posted by Emily0423

Don't worry we are all in the same boat!!

My co-worker just gave me a Real Simple Wedding Catalog/ Planner 2009 and its awesome... I started reading it yesterday and it calm me down 75%... I love it and I suggest you get and try to get things into place...

Don't want to over do things...

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hmmmm...................do you know where she got it???? i need it :)

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Posted by FutureMrsC614

The only song FH and I like together is from Micky Avalon 'all my friends and lovers are dead'.............not a good choice!

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I kind of feel that way too, we got a lot done when we first got engaged so I've been slacking and now I feel like I have a million things left!

Gina...

I think that everyone would really enjoy that as a wedding song. lol If you go into planning on LIW there is something that says wedding songs. They have a list of songs to help you out.

You should do the Shred with Katie and I.... We are on day 4. I will ask Joey to make a copy for you when he gets back from Vegas.

and hey, at least you got the BM dresses ordered.

P.S.- Love the stamp with your faces on it. Was it expensive?

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Posted by Lisa218

Gina...

I think that everyone would really enjoy that as a wedding song. lol If you go into planning on LIW there is something that says wedding songs. They have a list of songs to help you out.

You should do the Shred with Katie and I.... We are on day 4. I will ask Joey to make a copy for you when he gets back from Vegas.

and hey, at least you got the BM dresses ordered.

P.S.- Love the stamp with your faces on it. Was it expensive?

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My friend Monika actually ordered me the shred, so I am going to start it as soon as it comes in (which hopefully is SOON!!).

The stamps: anthony bought a thing from the post office that cost like $20...................but I think you can do the same thing if you go to stamps.com. It was like $60 for 100 of them.. they were cute right??

Just take a deep breath! It's completely normal, I still have 11 months to go and I'm going ballistic. It happens.

Just sit down and really think about everything that needs to be done, and write out a weekly goal list. Like I want to have my garter, hoodie, DOJ purchased by the weekend. Book limos by end of month. And so on...and it gets done!

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Posted by coldasice217

Just take a deep breath! It's completely normal, I still have 11 months to go and I'm going ballistic. It happens.

Just sit down and really think about everything that needs to be done, and write out a weekly goal list. Like I want to have my garter, hoodie, DOJ purchased by the weekend. Book limos by end of month. And so on...and it gets done!

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yeah you're right! I have to start making a list and writing stuff down because that's when I start freaking and thinking about the 10 million things i have to do.
I need to get more organized!! Sheesh!!!! who knew planning a wedding was so damned nervewracking loL!

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Posted by Emily0423

Don't worry we are all in the same boat!!

My co-worker just gave me a Real Simple Wedding Catalog/ Planner 2009 and its awesome... I started reading it yesterday and it calm me down 75%... I love it and I suggest you get and try to get things into place...

Don't want to over do things...

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hmmmm...................do you know where she got it???? i need it :)

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Its currently exclusively sold at Crate&Barrel!!

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Posted by Lisa218

Gina...

I think that everyone would really enjoy that as a wedding song. lol If you go into planning on LIW there is something that says wedding songs. They have a list of songs to help you out.

You should do the Shred with Katie and I.... We are on day 4. I will ask Joey to make a copy for you when he gets back from Vegas.

and hey, at least you got the BM dresses ordered.

P.S.- Love the stamp with your faces on it. Was it expensive?

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My friend Monika actually ordered me the shred, so I am going to start it as soon as it comes in (which hopefully is SOON!!).

The stamps: anthony bought a thing from the post office that cost like $20...................but I think you can do the same thing if you go to stamps.com. It was like $60 for 100 of them.. they were cute right??

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I am on the 3rd day of the shred and i feel like i have more energy even though my legs are burning and I cannot walk down the stairs. People prob think I am walking funny for other reasons. lol

Anyway, Katie showed me the stamps. They are adorable.

I am your MOH, i can help you... DUH

totally normal. I'm getting married in 3 months and I thought I had everything under control and then I realized....I DON'T

Take an afternoon to just relax and take a deep breath. Then just make a list of everyting you need to do, or can think of in order of priority.

Then each week try and tackle something and cross it off your list.

That's what I did and it really helped me to focus and not freak out.

but TRUST me, it's normal. just remember you're planning a wedding, a fun, happy, wonderful event. try and enjoy it as much as you can!