I am freaking out!!!!!

I don't know if its the fact that the wedding is in 48 days, or what, but I feel like I am loozing my mind!!!!

I had a hair trial with the lady I am using to do my hair, and I am not even sure if I like it. I did half up / half down. I don't know if I really like it though She didn't really 'do it' for real, she did a little just to give me an idea. And, well the trouble is, I don't know if I truly got the idea.

Now, with the wedding 48 days away, i don't know what to do. I am sure most of the hairdressers are taken.

What do you think of this kinda hair? My FH doesn't really like it... but maybe? Should I go for another trial with that look?
These trials are really adding up!!!!

i think thats very pretty

are u looking to specifically do a half up /down do?

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Posted by Bebalina

i think thats very pretty

are u looking to specifically do a half up /down do?

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yes. I am looking for the up/down look. My FH thinks this is too simple though... I will have a tiara as well.

Don't want to freak you out more...but are you sure it's 48 days away?

I'm 2 days before you and the 'home' LIW clock says 45 days for me...although an extra day wouldn't hurt!

All kidding aside, things have a way of working out...try to breathe and concentrate, I know it's easier said than done but put it all in perspective, you'll be fine!

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Don't want to freak you out more...but are you sure it's 48 days away?

I'm 2 days before you and the 'home' LIW clock says 45 days for me...although an extra day wouldn't hurt!

All kidding aside, things have a way of working out...try to breathe and concentrate, I know it's easier said than done but put it all in perspective, you'll be fine!

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48 if counting today!

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Don't want to freak you out more...but are you sure it's 48 days away?

I'm 2 days before you and the 'home' LIW clock says 45 days for me...although an extra day wouldn't hurt!

All kidding aside, things have a way of working out...try to breathe and concentrate, I know it's easier said than done but put it all in perspective, you'll be fine!

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Also, Thank you for your advice!

I got a platinum 5 princess cutt diamond (at .2ct each) thanks to your advice!!!! Thank you!

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Posted by May05Bride

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Don't want to freak you out more...but are you sure it's 48 days away?

I'm 2 days before you and the 'home' LIW clock says 45 days for me...although an extra day wouldn't hurt!

All kidding aside, things have a way of working out...try to breathe and concentrate, I know it's easier said than done but put it all in perspective, you'll be fine!

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Also, Thank you for your advice!

I got a platinum 5 princess cutt diamond (at .2ct each) thanks to your advice!!!! Thank you!

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You went with platinum?! You know the white gold would have been fine...but now you have NO worries - for life! Make sure to get those puppies checked periodically for loose stones, that's a substantial size to lose...I hope it wasn't a lot more!

And about the hair, I think you didn't have a real trial since she didn't really do you hair...did she charge? If so, I would ask her to do it again and for real this time since you're paying. What's wrong with people?

I think that looks really nice, maybe if you show him a pic of the curls and part a bit more neater/tighter and with a tiara he'll get a better idea. The tiara makes a big difference IMO.

Dont worry Im sure you will look beautiful no matter what hair style you choose! Its just the wedding nerves getting to you! I know, its starting for me too!

I TOTALLY understand about spending a lot of $$ on trials! All of my Hair & makeup trials totalled well over $400! I justified it as I'm spending all this money on the wedding (and pictures), I have to be perfectly happy with how I look!

If you need some more recommendations, let me know!

I think that hair style would look beautiful on you! I also think that they need to do it for real (at the trial) so you can see how it holds up, how you like it, how it looks with the tiara, etc.

Good luck!

I think that is a very nice style but I also think you should go for another trial, there are many of us who have gone for over two or three trials because you have to know what its going to look like on the day of. If you hair dresser 'doesn't really do it,' I would be a little concerned and ask her to 'really do it' so you can make a decision.

I think that the hair will be beautiful when you add the tiara. Are you adding a veil? My stylist didn't 'do it for real' with my trial either so i understand the fear. But I think I need to let go of my OCD (at least that's MY problem) and realize it will be fine..

Yours will look beautiful I am sure.

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Posted by SFP0214

I think that the hair will be beautiful when you add the tiara. Are you adding a veil? My stylist didn't 'do it for real' with my trial either so i understand the fear. But I think I need to let go of my OCD (at least that's MY problem) and realize it will be fine..

Yours will look beautiful I am sure.

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maybe my problem is OCD

But, I think I didn't really like the hair that she did

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Posted by May05Bride

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Posted by SFP0214

I think that the hair will be beautiful when you add the tiara. Are you adding a veil? My stylist didn't 'do it for real' with my trial either so i understand the fear. But I think I need to let go of my OCD (at least that's MY problem) and realize it will be fine..

Yours will look beautiful I am sure.

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maybe my problem is OCD

But, I think I didn't really like the hair that she did

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If you have ANY doubts then go for another trial!!!! I know they add up but its better to spend a little now and be happy that day then to spend THOUSANDS on pictures and hate the way you look at them!!!! Or be aggrivated that day when your hair dosent look the way you want it to! JMHO!

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

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Posted by May05Bride

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Posted by SFP0214

I think that the hair will be beautiful when you add the tiara. Are you adding a veil? My stylist didn't 'do it for real' with my trial either so i understand the fear. But I think I need to let go of my OCD (at least that's MY problem) and realize it will be fine..

Yours will look beautiful I am sure.

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maybe my problem is OCD

But, I think I didn't really like the hair that she did

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If you have ANY doubts then go for another trial!!!! I know they add up but its better to spend a little now and be happy that day then to spend THOUSANDS on pictures and hate the way you look at them!!!! Or be aggrivated that day when your hair dosent look the way you want it to! JMHO!

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You are obviously right!
I guess my next step is to call the lady and talk to her about my concerns. I just don't know what I want my hair to look like...

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Posted by May05Bride

You are obviously right!
I guess my next step is to call the lady and talk to her about my concerns. I just don't know what I want my hair to look like...

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I know its frustrating If it makes you feel any better I had my hair done the day of the wedding with someone I had never met before or had a hair trial with!!!! I just told her what I wanted and she did something similar. Not EXACTLY what I wanted but thank goodness I loved it anyway!!!
Maybe you can ask her what style she thinks would look good on you? She is a professional and has probably done this a million times!! Maybe she has some ideas??

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

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Posted by May05Bride

You are obviously right!
I guess my next step is to call the lady and talk to her about my concerns. I just don't know what I want my hair to look like...

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I know its frustrating If it makes you feel any better I had my hair done the day of the wedding with someone I had never met before or had a hair trial with!!!! I just told her what I wanted and she did something similar. Not EXACTLY what I wanted but thank goodness I loved it anyway!!!
Maybe you can ask her what style she thinks would look good on you? She is a professional and has probably done this a million times!! Maybe she has some ideas??

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It does make me feel a little better.
I will call her and ask her if she has some suggestions. Hopefully, she does.