I am going to shoot FH - vent.
Im going to kill him.
I slept and was on here today and then i told him i had to go for shoes with my mom and a bm. we went for shoes and ofcourse my bm gets shoes and i have a hard time - but all he does is call, constantly. His best friend is in lake tahoe right now - so he was home resting- after complaining all week of being sick, but he keeps calling me and texting that hes lonely. I told him i needed to get wedding things done - suggested he come - he says no. Im trying to get as much done as possible before i move in a week.
So I get home and tell him that our other reader, my cousin, who is 16 should be at the RD, as his reader, is going to be there as well. I feel she should go to the rehersal - and therefore should be at the RD.
So he is adament that we not add my cousin and her parents (bc she doesnt have a license yet) to the RD that his parents are paying for. Thats AFTER MY PARENTS have to pay for his 2 cousins (14 and 16), a child, and the 16 yr olds GF. After we said this was an adult only reception, and I was![]()
when FMIL called me and insisted that we pay for the 16yr olds girlfriend who i never met - i barely know the 2 cousins!!! BUt i let it go, i cant get stressed... And they were willing to pay for my 2 grandparents - but they cant go - both in wheel chairs and live upstate. This is the only thing they are funding. Anytime $$$ is brought up FMIL says - im glad im not the MOB
So back to our arguement - hes fighting with me on the phone - and then INCLUDES HIS MOM IN THE FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Were fighting and then i hear 'shes mad at me bc she needs her cousin and aunt and uncle added to the RD.' I was shocked!!! She starts to make a snide comment and i hung up my phone. I am just stunned. I have never involved a parent in an arguement with him. I dont like her knowing or being involved in things like that.
He calls me back and justifies it, saying he had to tell her anyway - i told him u wait until we are done discussing and fighting....like where is his brain!!! He said then hed have to wait until tomorrow. OH WELL! So now his mom is mad that we fought about it. Shes not happy about adding. BUT HIS READER IS GOING! We agreed each would pick one reader for 2 readings.
I am sitting here stunned. Im not mad that he didnt want my reader added. Im fuming that he involved his mom in our argument
I slept and was on here today and then i told him i had to go for shoes with my mom and a bm. we went for shoes and ofcourse my bm gets shoes and i have a hard time - but all he does is call, constantly. His best friend is in lake tahoe right now - so he was home resting- after complaining all week of being sick, but he keeps calling me and texting that hes lonely. I told him i needed to get wedding things done - suggested he come - he says no. Im trying to get as much done as possible before i move in a week.
So I get home and tell him that our other reader, my cousin, who is 16 should be at the RD, as his reader, is going to be there as well. I feel she should go to the rehersal - and therefore should be at the RD.
So he is adament that we not add my cousin and her parents (bc she doesnt have a license yet) to the RD that his parents are paying for. Thats AFTER MY PARENTS have to pay for his 2 cousins (14 and 16), a child, and the 16 yr olds GF. After we said this was an adult only reception, and I was
So back to our arguement - hes fighting with me on the phone - and then INCLUDES HIS MOM IN THE FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Were fighting and then i hear 'shes mad at me bc she needs her cousin and aunt and uncle added to the RD.' I was shocked!!! She starts to make a snide comment and i hung up my phone. I am just stunned. I have never involved a parent in an arguement with him. I dont like her knowing or being involved in things like that.
He calls me back and justifies it, saying he had to tell her anyway - i told him u wait until we are done discussing and fighting....like where is his brain!!! He said then hed have to wait until tomorrow. OH WELL! So now his mom is mad that we fought about it. Shes not happy about adding. BUT HIS READER IS GOING! We agreed each would pick one reader for 2 readings.
I am sitting here stunned. Im not mad that he didnt want my reader added. Im fuming that he involved his mom in our argument
