I am having a day! grrrr
So first a vendor and i had a phone conference at 1130..this vendor insisted on a phone call--(i just wanted to email)...i rush around all morning to get ready for this call and of course no phone call...
then (the more important issue of the 2) FH and I were to be married at a church of sorts that would allow an interfaith couple to marry....well at the meeting with the head guy he said they only take donations etc etc etc to please email him with allthe info..okay..did dhtat...we never got a confirmation...fh called two months or so ago and they said they would send us the paper work...
today fh calls bec still no paperwork and he speaks with a woman who tells him oh no..you need to leave an 1100 deposit before we send out the paper work, then you still need to pay $xx...
ummmm?!?!?!
fh politley tells this lady that we were never told any of this...the woman says well he is on the phone right now, i will have him call you back...
so that was i dunno 2 hours ago...
it isnt about the money its about the fact that this man is clearly so unorganzied and doesn't have a clue what is going on...
this is a tricky situation becuase like i said we are an interfaith couple...
my parish told me no...(![]()
)
so it feels like we are back to the drawing board again...and most know...i had to make some changes already and this woould mean a third trip to allll my vendors changing around the contracts again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
and so fh called another church it sounded great until they stated what time they do thier weddings and of course its so late!!!
stressed isnt even the word right now!!!!
ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
thanks for letting me vent! xxxooo
then (the more important issue of the 2) FH and I were to be married at a church of sorts that would allow an interfaith couple to marry....well at the meeting with the head guy he said they only take donations etc etc etc to please email him with allthe info..okay..did dhtat...we never got a confirmation...fh called two months or so ago and they said they would send us the paper work...
today fh calls bec still no paperwork and he speaks with a woman who tells him oh no..you need to leave an 1100 deposit before we send out the paper work, then you still need to pay $xx...
ummmm?!?!?!
fh politley tells this lady that we were never told any of this...the woman says well he is on the phone right now, i will have him call you back...
so that was i dunno 2 hours ago...
it isnt about the money its about the fact that this man is clearly so unorganzied and doesn't have a clue what is going on...
this is a tricky situation becuase like i said we are an interfaith couple...
my parish told me no...(
so it feels like we are back to the drawing board again...and most know...i had to make some changes already and this woould mean a third trip to allll my vendors changing around the contracts again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
and so fh called another church it sounded great until they stated what time they do thier weddings and of course its so late!!!
stressed isnt even the word right now!!!!
ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
thanks for letting me vent! xxxooo
