i am miserable

just had a fight with FH. wedding is on thursday. im stressing myself out like crazy NOW, so that i dont have to stress this week. im not taking it out on him at all, he just gets upset and feels bad for me when im crying and it seems like im suffering. im doing the extra things im doing bc i want it to be special for my guests. it seems like we are fighting over little st, but i feel like hes starting it.


AHHHHH. i always heard that the last week is the worst, but it shouldnt be. i have everything under control. just sometimes i get overwhelmed. tonight is crunch time only bc i meet with my RH tomorrow and have to hand everything in.

tell me ur in the same place i am, or have been!!!

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I'm sorry. I can't say I know how you feel b/c i'm not there yet, but i have heard the last few weeks are very stressful and everyone deals with it differently. Some cry, some fight, some drink

Everything will be fine! Good luck.

We were a little behind with things, so we were at the same place you guys are only about two days before our wedding.

I compared the week before the wedding to my sorority hell week.

The list of things to do seemed endless, and the time to get them done wasn't nearly enough. It felt like there weren't enough hours in the day!

Forget about who started it, and go give him a hug and a kiss and tell him you love him. Forget the argument, and just get done with what you can.

Also, keep in mind that you are just working on last minute touches to make things more special. Your guests won't have any idea what you had planned if you don't complete all the things on your list. They will just appreciate what you have completed. If you can't get it done, scratch it from the list.

Another option is to make arrangements to take another trip to the RH to drop more things off during the week ... just because you are meeting with them tomorrow doesn't mean you can't bring anything else over!

thanks already to the girls who responded. i feel like ive never really needed or wanted support and advice as much as now!!

THANKS

honestly we didn't get into any major arguments. however, fuses were short & emotions were running high.

just one little piece of advice. Your wedding day is about YOU AND YOUR FH and nobody else. don't bend over backwards trying to please everybody because you won't. in the end nobody is going to remember if you the flowers matched the BP dress or what kind of centerpieces you have.

Its not worth arguing with your FH

Hang in there!!

Lauren, Debi and Fred were in that same position. Praying for you guys!!!!! Mary MOB