i am not having a rd and now i am gonna cancel the bparty
janet
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i am not having a rd and now i am gonna cancel the bparty
i hate this i am being made out to be a bridezilla and i am not all i want is a chance to get what most get and bparty and a rd . i have not stop crying a bout this and the worst part it worked they are all making me feel guilty! i always remember watch all the brides to be at clubs and saying to my self i can't wait till it's my turn! well now it is and i hate it! they all had there turns why can't i have mine! what should i do? should i still have it and let them have it there way , should i just cancelle it or i don't know what to do !
julz33
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Why are you so upset? I don't understand... Is it because you want to go to a club and your bridal party does not want to?
OctGroom
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I'm not exactly sure what the circumstances are for you cancelling both these things. But I do know this -- If you cancel it, you'll miss and possibly regret that you canceled it for a long time. There's no reason for you not to have what all the brides get to celebrate.
Whatever the reasons are.. and at this point it really doesn't matter.. but do WHATEVER you can.. compromise is always the best solution.. to get these things done.
You deserve it.. now do it!
My Best Wishes.
Moehick
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What is the issue?
janet
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no one wants to go in a limo! they want to do what they want! ithey all told me it to much to go! i saved them on dress! by going to estlles i got the deals on shoes and paid for 1/2 of everyones hair and make up. the limo and escapes addmission all together would be 103! is that to much to ask for?
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Sick as it sounds, my Bachelorette night out will be the night before our wedding. You are more than welcomed to join us. H*ll with your friends, come and hang out with mine! Promise to be home by 2.30am...
MrHostility
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no one wants to go in a limo! they want to do what they want! ithey all told me it to much to go! i saved them on dress! by going to estlles i got the deals on shoes and paid for 1/2 of everyones hair and make up. the limo and escapes addmission all together would be 103! is that to much to ask for?
I understand your issue, but you are coming off childish. Technically it's not what you want, but what the MOH want's to throw you. What's wrong with picking 1 person to drive, even 2 if you need to. I'm sure the limo would be more fun, but your party might think using the $100 buying you and themselves booze is a better idea.
Have you thought about instead of the limo, renting a hotel room and going to NYC? Clubs and bars there are 100x's more fun than LI stuff is, and then nobody would have to drive. I dunno, it's an idea.
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Posted by janet
no one wants to go in a limo! they want to do what they want! ithey all told me it to much to go! i saved them on dress! by going to estlles i got the deals on shoes and paid for 1/2 of everyones hair and make up. the limo and escapes addmission all together would be 103! is that to much to ask for?
I don't think that is too much. By agreeing to be in your bridal party they are agreeing to pay certain expenses such as the dress, shoes, hair/make-up, bachelorette party. You were really nice to pay for 1/2 of their hair and make-up and got them a good deal on the other things. If it was me I wouldn't have a problem paying $103. It is a night out in a limo for them also!!! What are their circumstances? Are they really poor? Is it necessary you take a limo...if that would significantly cut the cost?
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Aww, sweetie, it's just that the way that bride's see their weddings is not the way that other people do. Maybe your girls want to have more money to give to the strippers. How you get to the party isn't the issue, it's that your friends are out with you having a good time. I don't think this is a big enough deal to cancel the party over - you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Just calm down and think about it. As long as you have a designated driver or a cab company's #, most of your time will be in the club anyway. That's the real purpose of the bparty, not how you get there.
Good luck!
janet
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janet
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i forgot one thing i am being told i told them they had to get herer hair and make up done at the place... that never happen. i had gotten a call from the salone sher imaganations and they asked for a final count so i called all the girls up and said i need a final count is it yes or no told them i needed to know by the end of the week. well the called back and some said no ok fine the others say yes and now there are telling everyone i am forcing them no i am not i just told them what i need to know they made up there on minds! ets that the hair and make up is 106 for both and i paid half of it.. 340. the other prices i was gettin was well over the 106 it was the cheapest i could find!
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I am sorry you are soo upset. But Can I bee totally honest with you. I went out to dinner and to escapes for my bachelorette party a few weeks ago. They got a limo and honstly it was nice not having to drive around but it turned out to be totally unnecessary. We were barely even in the limo. Maybe you could look into renting a limo to pick you all up and drive you to escapes and then get a limo to take you home at the end of the night. That would be much cheaper and maybe your BM's would go for that. I understand totally, trust me, that when you accept to be in a bridal party you accept responsibilities and expenses, but don't forget that besides the shoes and dresses and hair, there is also money they have to pay out to get their nails done, hair, undergraments and I am sure they plan on giving you a gift as well. So it all adds up. If they are offering to take you out to celebrate, but are trying to cut costs a bit, I say let them plan whatever it is and just go with the flow. This is something they are doing for you, and no matter what it is that you do, it will still be a special and memorable night because you will be with some of the most special people in your life celebrating your last days as a single gal before marrying the love of your life. I hope whatever happens, you are able to go out and enjoy yourself.
juju
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I would consider staying the night in the City. It should be cheaper than a limo. I had my Bachelorette Party without a limo and someone was designated driver. WE had a great time!
chris605
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Its not alot to ask at all - Sorry...
EvenEdan
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I don't understand? You want to cancel the Bachelorette party because your BP doesn't want to pay for a limo? While I can understand your disappointment, canceling seems a bit much. Maybe some members of your BP simply can't afford it, maybe some just don't think it is necessary. The B party is supposed to be whatever your BP plans for you, not what you dictate it to be. Try to look past the no limo thing and have a good time with your friends, that is really what matters.
