I am NOT talking about wedding plans w/ my FMIL anymore!!

Talking about my wedding with her is driving me nuts!! It makes m not like her, and I don't want to feel that way!

She has not contributed ANYTHING and won't be. And thats fine. But it annoys me a little since they paid for his siters ENTIRE wedding, HM and all, and she can't even give her son a rd?

She complains about how her daaughters in-laws didn't help at all and it was terrible.

She comes over last night and made some suggestions about how I could cut wedding costs:
1.Tell the church I can't afford the $250 pastor fee.
2. do my own hair and MU. I can't do my own hair and u that well on a good day, i can't even imagine trying with my nerves all over the place!
3. Go to PA for my HM, that way I don't have to get a passport, and why do Ihave to be a big shot anyway and go somewhere that requires a plane (I am planning on spending less then $3500, and fh and I have not been on a VAca in over 4 years!!)
4. Don't buy my bm's gifts
5. Host my RD in my tiny apt. That no one will fit in.
6. Don't get favors
7. get a fake wedding band, or sell my e-ring and get a cz.
8. don't get prof pics taken, they are aparently no different from onesshe can take

There was more, but I can't think.....

She also told me I should tell my dad he HAS to pay for more (He is allready paying for most of the wedding)

So I said, 'What do you mean he has to, well if you want to go all traditional, you should pay for our HM, RD, and marriage licence!!'

she said, 'Forget aout that, your dad should pay for that'

I have just had it up to here, I feeel like crying!!!