I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

shelzyp Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:09 PM

I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

Does everyone get like thiswhen it starts getting so close?? I flipped out last night and just had to leave the house, and drive around for a bit!! After a little bit, and then I also stopped at a freinds I was fine, but I am getting so stressed lately. I left the house becasue he asked me to print something on the computer, and the computer was not working after trying 3 times to start it up, so he didn't even do anything that would warrent me flipping.

I feel like I can't get much accomplished,a nd that I will never be able to get it all done!!

Thanks for letting me vent.

applesfla Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:32 PM

Re: I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

This is completely normal. I completely lost it about a month before our wedding (I almost changed our reception site with only a month to go...spent a day just crying) It's much easier said then done but try to relax and maybe take a day or two off from wedding stuff. Don't worry you will get through it and it will all be worth it when your big day finally gets here.

Best of luck to you.

fallwed03 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:32 PM

Re: I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

hey girl I feel ya

I am feeling the same way

Dont worry you will get it all done and it will be perfect - R u having nightmares yet?

emacsgirl Posted: Sep 15, 2003 12:47 PM

Re: I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

I'm Oct 12th too ... I'm right there with you! You will be able to get it all done!

Do you make lists? I made a big list with little boxes next to each thing so I can check them off - it feels really good to make the check mark, and I put dates next to certain things that I plan on working on so I don't even think about them until that date -ie.next weekend I am printing out placecards and tablecards - I won't touch them until then.

I also typed up a calendar for all the appts. and wedding stuff I have to do in the next month - I carry it with me always (with the list) it makes me feel better

Do whatever you need to do to stay sane

shelzyp Posted: Sep 15, 2003 01:00 PM

Re: I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

THanks, there si just alot going on right now, my grandpa is also very sick, and we are constantly waiting for test results, so I am just really on edge. My FH thinks I am a nut case!!!

sept20yay! Posted: Sep 15, 2003 01:21 PM

Re: I am one month away form wedding, and I am stressing out!!!

I feel your pain!!! I stopped being normal at that one month to go point. I had a few panic attacks and normally sane, I suddenly needed sleeping pills to get me through the night. I haven't had normal talks with my friends and am almost incoherent for weeks. Under a lot of stress. I started crying a lot- almost everyday- until the wedding. The most overwhelming feeling is the idea that I just want this wedding to be here already. I feel like I have been studying for a test for the last 13 months!!! Pencils down on Saturday.