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I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

PeteysBride Posted:

I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

Hey all

As most of you ladies know I was married July 29, 2007 in NJ at a gorgeous place and the wedding was fabulous although many things went wrong-the usual stuff mostly. However, my necklace also went missing that day. At first I didn't want to make a huge deal out of it but the DH gave it to me last year for Christmas as a pre-anniversary gift and it wasn't cheap but since I never take it off its been fine. But I removed it to put on a pearl one for the wedding and left it in our bridal suite which the managers said we had for the whoel day and which was supposed to be LOCKED. Yet mid reception the maitre D comes down and tells me he's moved our things and I'm like WHAT! It was supposed to be locked or we would have gone up there ourselves and taken it all to the car. But he assured us it was in a safe place. It all ende dup in an unlocked CLOSET.

So Im still trying not to make a fuss. I just want the necklace back. But suppsoedly the maitre D only worked weeknds and they couldn't call him (YEA RIGHT) so I ahd to wait nearly a week. I finalyl call because it was ridiculous and had to call EVERY DAY twice a day until finally the owner whow as suppsoed to return it IMMEDITAELY as he promised me, picks up after keeping me on hold for 1/2 hour.

First, he is downright dismissive and rude even going so far as to say yes he knew I called but he didn't know if I found the necklace or anything so he didn't call me back. WHAT? ON WHAT planet does that make sense?! If I had it in my possession would I have called you 20 times in a day?!!!

Then he OUTRIGHT LIED to me! He said he talked to my husband about letting him see surveillance tapes which was an outright fabrication because when I told hubby, he was like W T F NO ONE spoke to me. Also the small suite HAS NO tapes because you get dressed in there. So Im REALLY disappointed. I mean crap he was just on VH1 weddings so you would think he wouldn't wnat this kidn of negative publicity. Especially because women here have asked me about the place and even after they initially misplaced the necklace I was willing to give them more business. But now? Begrudging me for THEIR mistake forr a few hundred dollars when I was willing to send thousands of dollars their way? They rushed us out of that room that morning and were the last people in and THEY moved our stuf fso they are lible.

I am REALLY unhappy. Mind you I have pictures of where the necklace was thanks to the photographer and the original bill and he is stll tryign to jerk us around despite them being the last people in there. Not even trying to hide the fact he knows its their mistake. I said I would file a police report and he's like 'No you can't.' OH YES I CAN! He said he'd do it and submit it to his insurance I'm like yea right. Just like he called me back. I know it will get 'lost' in paperwork but I don't know whether to try that and then go to small claims court or what.

I don't know how to handle this ladies aside from warning everyone that their place is gorgeous but that their customer service SUX. If there are any lawyers out there lol I need you! Suggestions please.

TIA.
olivia30 Posted:

Re: I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

After reading your story and seeing your beautiful pics, I would file a police report asap. This owner has already proven he is unreliable and a liar. Cover your valuables!

RadiantBride Posted:

Re: I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

I am so sorry this happened to you. Definitley file a police report and if you need to go there in person then go b/c they cant give you the run-around with you right there.
It is frustrating b/c when they see money coming in they provide the best attentions but as soon as the wedding is over you are on your own.
I am so mad at this so I can imagine how you feel.
HTH
Jayla127 Posted:

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I would definately pursue this using the law. And, also saw the owner on VH1. You would think he would handle this situation in a timely manner. But, he seems so obnoxious and uncaring. What was the reason to move your valuables from one room to another. Alot of underhanded things going on there. Pls keep us posted!

emcheung Posted:

Re: I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

i'm sorry you're going through this. sounds like you're not the only bride who's had stuff go missing on her wedding day. i guess the moral of the story is, don't keep anything valuable at the reception hall. i hope things work itself out.

Lemons Posted:

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ABSOLUTELY file the police report! Contact BBB! ANd let him KNOW the actions you are taking while doing it! That is just horrible that he is putting you through this!
Trishthedish Posted:

Re: I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

I would file a police report ASAP. I think you only have a certain amount of time to file a report. This is why I said ASAP...

I would not trust the owner since he has already betrayed your trust.

Good luck and I hope it all works out.
KitWisdom Posted:

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I would suggest going to one of those local news shows…you know “Help me Howard” or whatver. They would love this story because a) it’s a wedding and everyone loves a wedding and b) this guy was just on VH1. Even the threat of having it be on TV would probably but that guy’s butt in motion!

LuckyMe Posted:

Re: I AM PISSED! I need some help ladies ASAP (about missing necklace)

FILE A POLICE REPORT IMMEDIATELY!!! This guy is obviously a jerk and the longer you wait the worse it looks for you if wind up in small claims. I dont see why you both couldnt file a report anyway. Good Luck and Im sorry you lost your necklace.

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