I am really not liking DH right now......

Yesterday he promised to take me to the mall to go shopping. I don't drive. I worked all day on Saturday and came home all excited to buy new clothes for my NEW job! I really need new clothes b/c my new job requires more dressy clothing then I own.

He was worried about the rain. Mind you, it was 5:30 when I got home. We argued and needless to say, we didn't go. Now, I don't have time today because I have to work and I still have nothing to wear to work for next week.

We have been married almost three years and each year it is getting worse. He doesn't do anything unless he is nagged and nagged and then he catches an attitude. I am so tired of it. I do everything and he does nothing. Next week he will be gone with his company for a 'boys week of fishing, drinking etc..' I will be home taking care of our two dogs and the apartment. And I still will not have gone to the mall!!!!!!!!!! I really do not like him right now!

First off: I'm very sorry you are having difficulties


I really think you need to sit down and have a long talk. I think you should really think about what you want to say and what you want changed and listen to him and how he feels. It won't be easy, but it looks like it's very needed right now!

Is it just when you want to go shopping that he resists? If so, maybe shopping is just something he really hates.

If its anything though then maybe a long talk is needed so he understand how much this bothers you.

Order some clothes online