ok my wedding is a month away and everyone is like r u ready?? r u ready? are you nervous? and the only thing i am sick over is my dress.... i loved it when i picked it and when i tried it on over the winter and for fittings, just this last fitting was when i started to panic.....i am seriously freakkking out. ..... i almost bought another dress....all my friends say that i am crazy...i really don't know what to do...i wish i could just show fh and see if he likes it....i am so nervous about how i am going to look the day of it like sickens me....is this my version of wedding jitters?? i don't know i need advice really badly please help
If YOU are this upset over it then I'd look into getting a new one but only if you really think it will make you unhappy. I bought a dress that everyone loved but it really wasn't what I'd envisioned for my wedding day. I bought another one kinda last minute and I CANNOT WAIT for it to come in! I am all giggly now and happy whe nI think about it and that's how it should feel.
Try it on again and think about how you feel, it doesn't matter how anyone else feels.
ttdiff11
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i lovee the dress!!
FutureMrsG
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I think your dress is BEAUTIFUL!!!
Julia0927
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The dress looks great. Maybe you just get nervous when you put it on, because the whole day becomes more real.
TaraVinny
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i love the dress! don't worry you'll look amazing!
MirabellaNYC
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I think the dress is gorgeous.
Trust me I go through the dress panic too-I just found out mine will be in 3 weeks from now, and my stomach is turning I'm so nervous.
What helps me though, is I tell myself 'It's not just about the dress-the dress is a focal point from a design standpoint, but a wedding is all about us and our FH committing to each other'. Because trends come and go, and I don't think there's just 1 dress out there, just remember what the wedding symbolizes, hopefully you'll feel better.
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not only is it a beautiful dress but it looks KILLER on you!!
I think soooo many thoughts and emotions are running through your head that that could be a reason your second guessing. A part of me is totally petrified that FH won't think my dress is out of this world and he's the only one I really want to impress!! BUT I refuse to drive myself crazy over it and have to be confident in my decision. I was obsessed with my dress when I first put it on and I have to envision FH thinking the same exact thing when he sees me in it!!
HTH
dazies1011
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I love your dress
kristen1226
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It's beautiful!
kristentinnelly
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Your dress is absolutely stunning!!!!! I love it
Eva Faith
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thanks so much for all the advice. i will post pictures of my next fitting 1
meara
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1. I loooove your dress
2. just from my personal experience ..
I hated hated hated my dress soo much until the final fitting that I cried when I tried it on. . and at the last fitting I made sure to bring two friends who were supportive and also it was amazing what the few changes the seamstress did to make it look soo different and in the end I LOVED LOVED LOVED it and couldn't imagine wearing anything else and so many people told me it looked like the dress was made for me perfectly. . so I would say you can def feel better about things so trust your first judgement. .
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I think it's beautiful! I've been having second thoughts about my dress too..I think it's just because as the wedding gets closer it means my decision about the dress becomes more final (as do all the planning decisions).
At least for me I think it's not so much that I don't want to keep my dress, as much as it is not wanting to lose the option of changing my mind.
