I am sick to my stomache.

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:09 PM

I am sick to my stomache.

I don't know if anyone remembers me talking about the bestman for our wedding and how he decided he hated us out of no where, but I just got an email from him that made me sick to my stomache, this is PART of what he wrote:

'I still have this unbelievable desire to put my fist through your
face. And I got used to not having you guys, you will make a real enemy
if I forgive you and you do this again. Think about everything I said
real hard.'

WE DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT WE DID! I am just so disgusted that someone would have the nerve to say that to me.

NovemberSue Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:10 PM

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OMG! What is his problem?
Someone needs to talk to him and find out what is wrong with him and why he is threatening you like that.

bride04 Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:11 PM

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OctBride03 Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:12 PM

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OMG!!! You have NO idea what happened??? I REALLY hope he is still not your bestman....

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:12 PM

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We have no idea what his problem is! We went to NY for my birthday, and we were at dinner, and he gets on his cell phone and starts calling people and was say things like, 'Well, I'll never get married if it means I'll end up like them.'
***????? I am so upset. I am so mad that I am even letting him get to me like this.

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:13 PM

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OMG no, he's not the bestman anymore, if anything, he'll be lucky if his picture makes it to my dart board!

NovemberSue Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:14 PM

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Sounds like he has issues.
You definately don't need anyone like that!

yabbobay Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:16 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that rachel...

If he won't tell you what you did wrong (if it was really anything), I think the best thing you can do is to forget about him...

I know that blood boiling feeling...just take a few DEEP breaths and you'll start feeling better!!

NovemberSue Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:18 PM

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I'm so sorry. This guy is a real jerk.

Rob-luvs-me Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:23 PM

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This guy sounds like a real creep

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 14, 2003 05:56 PM

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I just told FH and he was FURIOUS! I mean, why is it all directed at me? I think he is just nuts. FH called him and said he considers that a threat and to never contact either of us again. So hopefully that will put an end to it. I'm just so disgusted.

swags1016 Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:32 PM

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Wow that is horrible. I cannot believe the nerve of that creep to threaten you like that! You are very lucky that your FH has no problem standing up for you!!!!! Well, now that he told him not to contact you two again. You should be able take a few breathes than relax a little! You are better of without him. No matter what his reasons for being upset he had no right to make such a violent threat! Good-bye and good riddance!

kptoys Posted: Mar 15, 2003 08:56 PM

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OMG!!!! What a freak!!! I hate when people just freak out out of the blue and then refuse to give you a reason! You are better off with him out of your lives!!!

kelly4 Posted: Mar 16, 2003 01:17 AM

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FREEEEEEEEEAK! fREEEEEEEEAK! FREEEEEEEEAK!

Could he be jealous of you and your DH, or just resenting that you two are getting married? Good thing you found out now and not after your wedding. It's true what people ssay, you really find out about who really is your friend when it comes to weddings. They really show their true colors then.

Best wishes!

Lora

HeatherandNick Posted: Mar 16, 2003 09:28 AM

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I agree with the above post. It does sound like he may be jealous that you don't spend as much time together as you guys used to or that you are getting married. Especially if you have no idea what he is talking about. Either way it seems you are definately better off without him.

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 16, 2003 10:50 AM

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Looking back and evaluating the last few months, we realized we should have seen this coming. We've put up with a little too much for this guy. It doesn't matter anymore, he's been cut from our list. I really have no room for people who think it's ok to threaten me. But the best part is that he called FH the night before, which I did not know, and tried to patch things up with him and say that as long as he never has to talk to me again, he still wants to be friends with FH. This is a message he left for FH. It's just so stupid. He obviously is jealous over something, and we really want no part of it. We are doing things to better our lives, why do we want to be friends with someone who wants to bring us down.

112903 Posted: Mar 16, 2003 07:43 PM

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Wow that guy is OUT OF CONTROL!!!! Get rid of him for good. That is just completely unacceptable.

Jen2704 Posted: Mar 17, 2003 12:37 AM

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DrmnBlnd Posted: Mar 17, 2003 08:58 AM

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LizD Posted: Mar 17, 2003 09:00 AM

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He seems jealous of the relationship yoo tow have. You do not need people like that in your life at all. Cut all ties with him and don't look back. You will be much better off without him!