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I am so angry right now............vent

CaughtMyFish Posted:

I am so angry right now............vent

not for anything related to me, but for one of my BM's. She is invited to a wedding out in Montauk in the fall (not getting specific here bc the bride may lurk) and just called to reserve her room where the room block is........... ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


$400 per night!

Whattheeeeffffkkkk! I swear I am SO angry on her behalf. What bride thinks that's OK? Who reserves a block at $400 per night? I know its a fancy place, and I know her wedding is going to be top notch bc she is one of 'those types' but to drag down your guests like that?

Maybe I am alone here but I swear to god I would get a cab at the end of the night and find a cheaper option somewhere nearby.

FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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Whoa!

I was worried about asking people to spend $130! I'll refer any complainers to this post!
roblisa09 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

Whoa!

I was worried about asking people to spend $130! I'll refer any complainers to this post!



WOWOWOWOW!!!!!! That is crazy!!!!!!!!!!!
Rob and Robin Posted:

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That is outlandish and very thoughtless on the part of the bride.

I would probably stay somewhere else or just not drink and drive home.
CaughtMyFish Posted:

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Robin, I said to her 'so dont drink and go home' but she lives all the way out in western nassau, so I can see why she would want to stay.

Oh and she is single so I suggested she NOT bring a date, bc then her gift has to be bigger. I dont even think she should write a check with that hotel cost.

Some people have such nerve!! Here I am feeling kinda guilty that my room block will prob be $159 per night and then I hear this.....
Rob and Robin Posted:

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Posted by CaughtMyFish

Robin, I said to her 'so dont drink and go home' but she lives all the way out in western nassau, so I can see why she would want to stay.

Oh and she is single so I suggested she NOT bring a date, bc then her gift has to be bigger. I dont even think she should write a check with that hotel cost.

Some people have such nerve!! Here I am feeling kinda guilty that my room block will prob be $159 per night and then I hear this.....



Ugh what a bummer! My FH made us drive home from a wedding in Connecticut because he thought the room block was too expensive!

I think ours are going to be like $200 because we are getting married on the Jersey Shore in the summer. Every place has crazy summer rates! But, the reception is going to be low-key so people don't feel pressured to 'cover their plates.'

Jill52787 Posted:

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WOW! I am driving myself nuts between 130-150

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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let me guess Gurneys or Yacht Club? We wanted to get married in Montauk but didn't because of this and a few other factors...it would be that much for people to spend the night for our wedding AND it was a 2 night minimum....no way would i EVER do that to my guests. I really don't think it's right. Stay further west if you can...even staying in Riverhead could help the drive home.

JRT5412 Posted:

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wow that is ridiculous!!!!!!! 2 nights there I can take a 5-day vacation at some resort. SMH!!!!!

irisheyezrsmilen Posted:

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thats insane!!!


is there another hotel or place near the hall that she can stay at instead? i would never be able to pull that off


how rude!
CaughtMyFish Posted:

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sad part is that she doesnt want to stay where no one else is staying, so I get it. She says she booked 2 nights but had to pay for 1, and will cancel the other before the event.

I am honestly upset for her, angry at that bride for being so selfish! If you are that rich then PAY for the guests accommodations!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bride2be2012 Posted:

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Wow! I cannot even believe that. Just because you are getting married doesn't mean all your friends and family need to go broke. I'm sorry for your friend!! I was feeling bad about $150 a night....


midnight26 Posted:

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um wow. how can someone afford that price and a gift.....crazy!

SEB102707 Posted:

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I am getting all crazy about my blocks!! I don't want people spending ridiculous amounts of money... ESPECIALLY when I know they don't have it. I would NEVER spend 400$$ on a room or expect my guests to. Rude and selfish to expect that from someone! Heck, I'm getting angry for you!

CaughtMyFish Posted:

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Posted by SEB102707

I am getting all crazy about my blocks!! I don't want people spending ridiculous amounts of money... ESPECIALLY when I know they don't have it. I would NEVER spend 400$$ on a room or expect my guests to. Rude and selfish to expect that from someone! Heck, I'm getting angry for you!



LOL! Thanks for the sympathy anger. I cant believe how upset I got for her, but really it's SO WRONG! I told her to park at my place in Suffolk and get a town car to drive her in and back, bc that has to cost less than $400.

She is also going to look at local motels, but deep down I know she wants to be where the party is, and I can understand that. Shame on that bride, really.
mara1017 Posted:

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That is insane! I would take a cab to a less expensive hotel!

BENETTA2012 Posted:

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THAT IS STEEEEEP!!!!
jenclifwed Posted:

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Thats madness!! Our room rate is $199 and im scared that is asking too mush! sheesh!

Honestly that should count as their gift. I would just look for a local marriot or something local to that. so rude though!
pixietina Posted:

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That is ridiculous! That is very inconsiderate and rude!

linda_art Posted:

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Wow!!! Thats a bit much!!!

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