I am so mad.....

Why can't a bride just have a bad day or be in a bad mood without being called a Bridezilla? I am so frustrated. I just spoke with one of my BM's and she asked how I was and I said ok, just been busy. Instantly she started saying how I seem to be in a bad mood and why am I being such a bridezilla.

1- I have not asked my BP to do one thing to help me with the wedding.
2- I let them choose the dress.
3- Told them to get whatever shoes they wanted, so that they would be comfortable. My only request was they should be silver.
4- I asked that they get their hair done the day of the wedding.

I think I have been very easy. I don't even call them to vent or complain about anything wedding related (only my MOH). I just don't understand why people throw that word around so loosely.

Thanks for letting me vent!

i feel ya!!!!it seems that nobody cares how much input and detail we put in the wedding.

being the bride isnt easy
that word does go around often nowadays......i hate when people call me bridezilla , when im not. anyways, its not just you, and hang in there!!

sometimes people get offended if you don't have time to talk, so don't take it too personally......she probably thought she was being funny, but being that we're in crunch time here, being called a bridezilla is not easy to hear!! it's definitely an overly used phrase, being busy does not mean you're acting like a psycho bridezilla!! don't let it get you down!!

yeah... I hear you. Sometimes, I'm so busy that my sense of humor doesn't lend itself to being called Bridezilla.

I hate that soo much.

i hear you babe... I have only been venting to my MOH tooo but trying not to do that also lately!!! since she is getting married in october i don't want to burden her with my issues as much as we get closer!!

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Posted by HelenZ

sometimes people get offended if you don't have time to talk, so don't take it too personally......she probably thought she was being funny, but being that we're in crunch time here, being called a bridezilla is not easy to hear!! it's definitely an overly used phrase, being busy does not mean you're acting like a psycho bridezilla!! don't let it get you down!!

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Thanks! I needed to hear that.

I totally can relate!! My Dad called me a bridezilla the other day!! I was simply asking him to call 2 relatives to see if they were coming to the wedding and was explaining how rude it is that people have a whole month to respond and they don't...he called me a bridezilla!! I was like, you have no idea how bridezilla I ACTUALLY COULD BE!!

I hear ya!!! Any time I have a bad day - or wake up cranky - I'm instantly a 'Bride-zilla'... No one seems to think that people just might be in a bad mood because of something UNrelated to this wedding...
D@mn them!!!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsMunzGunz

Why can't a bride just have a bad day or be in a bad mood without being called a Bridezilla? I am so frustrated. I just spoke with one of my BM's and she asked how I was and I said ok, just been busy. Instantly she started saying how I seem to be in a bad mood and why am I being such a bridezilla.

1- I have not asked my BP to do one thing to help me with the wedding.
2- I let them choose the dress.
3- Told them to get whatever shoes they wanted, so that they would be comfortable. My only request was they should be silver.
4- I asked that they get their hair done the day of the wedding.

I think I have been very easy. I don't even call them to vent or complain about anything wedding related (only my MOH). I just don't understand why people throw that word around so loosely.

Thanks for letting me vent!

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OMG! I have told the same thing. It makes me sooo mad!!!!!

I totally understand.

I totally hear ya!!! tell em to buzz off!!! Thats what Ive been doing!!! Bridezilla is NOT funny!!!! I think it's the other ppl that make us crazy!!!! Trying so hard to keep it all together!!! They just dont get it!!!!

Some people just don't realize how insensitive they are being! I dont think she really meant to hurt you... don't let it get you down!!

yeah, the use of the term 'Bridezilla' makes me want to drop kick the user of said term in said user's face

People are jerks...screw em'! Wait till they get married!

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Posted by Mich0621

yeah, the use of the term 'Bridezilla' makes me want to drop kick the user of said term in said user's face

People are jerks...screw em'! Wait till they get married!

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That is the worse part one of my BM's just got married last year. It's like she forgot what it is like to be a bride.