I am so pissed at fh today....
I tried to be very nice to fh and all I am getting is an attitude. I am so pissed. My fh's best man was suppose to plan his Bachelor party and give all the guys a call that fh wanted to invite. His best man made one call to everyone and no one has heard anything from him again. Fh has been trying to get a hold of his best man nothing he emailed him, text him, called him for weeks and nothing back. So yesterday my fh forwarded me an email he sent to the limo comapny canceling his party bus for the night of his bachelor party cause he said he doesn't think he is having one. I felt so bad and knew how disappointed he was and how much he wanted this I took it apon myself to fix this. I talked to the limo guy and he said he would give me until Sunday to straighten things out so then I called up one of his groomsmen and told them what was going on and he said ok we will fix this problem together. We came up with a few ideas which I tought were great. We thought about getting one party bus and having both parties together or getting one bus going out to eat together then both parties share the bus but do there own things. I was totally cool with both ideas. I thought it would be cheaper and it would be a lot of fun. So fh I talked to fh and told him what I was up to and told him I did all of this cause I love him and I care a lot about him and I hated seeing him disappointed. So we all talked it over and were going to share the bus together but go out to different places and have our own parties. So I called my sister to let her know she was cool with it. So this morning my fh changed his mind and said no we will rent the limo bus for the bachelorette party and get a limo for the bachelor party. I was so pissed cause we had it all figured out last night and I was so happy I made him happy now I feel like all I did was stress myself out more cause he is acting like a jerk. I can't believe how rude he is being after I was trying to make his night happen and get him to have a great night out. I thought I was begging a loving fiance and a good fiance. I am realy hurt.I am hurt cause he says one think one second then says another then does something else. I am mad cause he doesn't even say thank you so much for trying to make this happen for me. All I get is him confusing me, stressing me out and an attitude cause I tried to help. I thought getting one big party bus would be a great idea and it would help everyone else out with the cost. I also thought it would be fun and everyone would have a great time but we can all still do our own thing but all have a dinner together at a nice place and have a few drinks on the bus together and have a great time. All I wanted was to see my fh happy and excited about having a bachelor party. I don't want to see him disappointed or worried about not having one. So I tried to straighten things out to get him to have one by asking a groomsmen for help.
