I am so proud of myself

This is so cheesy but I feel like the better person.

I was talking to my friend and she mentioned to me about her cousin Anthony. Anthony and I used to date (as much as Cheryl was against it we really liked each other and wanted to be together)

Anyway, Anthony joined the army and is getting married. He just got engaged and the wedding is January 2nd.

She told her mom she wasnt sure if she was going to go because of what he did to me. He broke up with me on my birthday on my answering machine. I was crushed. I was heart broken for months. It took me a long time to get over it.

So today I told her please go to his wedding. She asked me why and I told her he and I spoke about a year ago for the first time since 1998 when we broke up and we had a long talk and I healed. I forgave him. I am happy and he is happy. I want you to go and give him a message from me, please tell him I wish him a lot of love and happiness for his future. I wish him a safe journey in the army. I wish him nothing but endless happiness.

She was shocked. I told her yes he was horrible and immature for what he did, but i have grown from that experience and I hope he has as well. So please go and have a good time, give him a hug from me and tell him to be safe.

She laughed and said she will.

I feel so proud of myself. It took me such a long time to get over him and now I am glad he found happiness. I found my happiness and the love of my life and I wish for him the same. I never thought I would ever forgive him and would hate him forever but FI made me stronger, he made me see the love I had blocked and he made all my dreams come true.

I feel extremely proud of myself

It's nice to let go of the past isn't it?

That is great and you should be proud of yourself!!!


I still want to go hunt down my exes and show them the rock on my finger and tell them off

rachel it definatly is.

eternity oh dont worry i have faith in my dear friend who will rub in his face the rock i got on my finger, the house we are having built, the FI who works for department of homeland security. Oh I have faith in my friend who will make sure that info is very well known to him.

That was really nice of you, you should be very proud with yourself.

awe..thats great!! You should be proud of yourself..!!!Good job!!

thanks girls.

awwwwww glad to hear that!

That is great! I went through the same thing a few years ago and it is such a GREAT feeling!!!

I feel like so much was let go and I am stronger for it