I am home alone tonight because me and the fiance are not speaking, since he went to atlantic city last night without telling me and shut off his phone :(
this sux!
EvaLution333
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I was in AC (The Borgata) last night also, for my friend's bachelorette party... I met a whole BUNCH of guys who were there for bachelor parties, there must have been at least 4 or 5 bachelor parties that I saw. If it makes you feel any better, the guys I met were very nice and not touchy-feely at all.
gNi1125
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i called him last night, finally got him on the phone at eleven thirty. he said he did not want to talk to me, he can do whatever he wants to do, and then he hung up and turned off his phone again. oh well, he wont be hearing from me for a very long time
I don't blame you. Sorry you have do deal with this crap. Not quite sure if he would appreciate that same kind of treatment.
marymoon
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i called him last night, finally got him on the phone at eleven thirty. he said he did not want to talk to me, he can do whatever he wants to do, and then he hung up and turned off his phone again. oh well, he wont be hearing from me for a very long time
I can't bruch this off and say 'men are such jerks' you NEED to have a LONG talk to FH about this..what if he does this when you're married? The fact is he CAN'T do whatever he wants to do, he has obligations to you now, he has another person to care about and make decisions with, that's what the ring on your finger means. Don't let this go by without really really talking it out. Hope it works out
SIBride06
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OMG.. thats terrible!!!! Girl you better set him straight now before he does this after you guys are married. Guys can be such jerks sometimes. I swear. Well, at least we all have each other... Hopefully he won some money lol
I wouldn't call him. I would wait until he calls you. Keep us updated. We are all here for ya!!
FormerlyKnownAsQ
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I'm sorry!
cindyandkevin
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Sounds like he's being really idiotic!! He's shutting out the 1 person in his life who cares about him the most, for a stupid weekend getaway with the guys. Def wait for him to call you, as much as that might hurt. Just keep yourself busy with your own things to distract your mind. So sorry he's being like this!!! He's gotta understand that you're not upset bc he went to AC but bc he shut off his phone. What if there was an emergency and you had to reach him! (knock on wood) We're grown-ups now, this petty shut off the phone stuff doesn't fly in the real world. You weren't looking to give him a hard time, you just wanted to be informed. And you should be; remind him that getting married means becoming one! He's gotta get used to that, and he's gotta do it fast!
Noiva06
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I'm sorry...guys can be such morons sometimes especially when they are out with the boys!! This calls for a girls night out!!!!
kellwolfe
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Oh honey I am so sorry .....thats not nice men can be Jack asses sometimes!
JessicaM.
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I hope you spoke to him about this. I think he's just feeling himself a little....trying to be independent or whatever. but I agree with the other girsl....you can't let this one just die to chalk it up to 'guys can be dumb' I think he's being a little mean actually, which is completely uncool.
iffer042373
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My FH did this for a while but this was before we were engaged but living together and I was prego at the time He would come and go as he pleased and I wouldn't be able to get in touch with him. I wound up not speaking to him for a few days and I wound up going to a friends house for a weekend and didn't tell him and didn't take any of his calls gave him a taste of his own medicine when I came home we had a real heart to heart talk and I explained to him that we are in this together and he isn't single he has a girlfriend and a child on the way and that it he can't go out allthe time without talking to me first not that I am your mother but you need to take my feelings into consideration and I let h im know how I felt and ever since then he understood and he has been a very good boy.
