I am SO upset....

Not only am I planning my own bachelorette party (long story) but now my cousin is telling me she has a Halloween party the night of my bachelorette party and will not be able to attend (she is one of my BM's)...I am SO stressed out that I don't even want a bachelorette party anymore

didn't she know the date of the party?

I'm so sorry you're going through this

Yes, but I guess her friends and this Halloween party she must not miss are way more important than her own cousins bachelorette party

are you sure she isn't playing a trick on you?

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

are you sure she isn't playing a trick on you?

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No, she's definitely not playing a trick...this is the same person who showed up an hour late to my shower...her friends are more important than me

What goes around, comes around

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

are you sure she isn't playing a trick on you?

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No, she's definitely not playing a trick...this is the same person who showed up an hour late to my shower...her friends are more important than me

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we love u

I'm starting to feel the same way about mine. My FSIL, one of my BMs, bagged out of the hotel for the night saying, 'for once in my life I'm trying to be reasonable with $$$', mind you, she & her husband do very well and I went to 2 bachelorette parties for her. I know some people may think it's a waste of $$ to stay in a Manhattan hotel, but I just figured of all people, she'd be a part of everything, no matter what we decided to do.

Anyway, sorry for my own rant - just letting you know I feel your pain. It's frustrating.

Oh no I am so sorry!

That's so awful! I had a similar thing happen with my bach. party. It ended up only being me and my MOH at Waterzooi where I bought most of my own drinks and she brought up some off-hand remark I made 3 years ago and said how it really bothered her. I'm sure the most appropriate time/place to bring it up was my bach party, right? Honestly, I think I would've been better off not having a bach party at all rather than having the one I did.

You girls are so supportive which is why I love you all so much!! You are all very sincere and means so much to me so I can not thank you enough.

Lots of hugs for you Wedhead

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Posted by jenniesunshine

That's so awful! I had a similar thing happen with my bach. party. It ended up only being me and my MOH at Waterzooi where I bought most of my own drinks and she brought up some off-hand remark I made 3 years ago and said how it really bothered her. I'm sure the most appropriate time/place to bring it up was my bach party, right? Honestly, I think I would've been better off not having a bach party at all rather than having the one I did.

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Awwwwww...some people just suck

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Posted by jenniesunshine

That's so awful! I had a similar thing happen with my bach. party. It ended up only being me and my MOH at Waterzooi where I bought most of my own drinks and she brought up some off-hand remark I made 3 years ago and said how it really bothered her. I'm sure the most appropriate time/place to bring it up was my bach party, right? Honestly, I think I would've been better off not having a bach party at all rather than having the one I did.

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I love Waterzooi! Great place!

u could have a liw b-party

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Posted by Happybride2005

u could have a liw b-party

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Please do, b/c I can use one. I am not having a BP party. Some of you know that all of my girls are prego. 2 of them dropped out b/c of prego complications. MOH dropped out b/c she is having twins and it's just too much for her. So now I am down to 3 girls (which one is prego but very early) and the other 2 are his sisters. One lives in Florida.
So I am not having one.
They offered to go to a spa, but I don't wann go to a spa. I know that sounds selfish but it's how I feel. I want to go to the spa the day before the wedding.
SO LET'S HAVE A LIW BP FOR THOSE whose BP's parties stunk and for those that didn't get to have one!!!!