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I am so upset right now

upsetbride2 Posted:

I am so upset right now

I had to create a new name because some of my friends are on here.

I was on my computer at home earlier and my FH and I have different log ins. Well he was on the computer and got up and a few mintues later I went onto the internet with out switching to my log in on the computer. I was looking up hotel information on the computer and then wanted to put the information into an excel spreadsheet which I always do with information that I find. The problem is, I was on FH account and when I clicked on file in Excel, I saw a file that was named 30thbday, which I am assuming is supposed to be a surprise for me. I am so UPSET that I saw this. It is going to be so hard for me to keep this inside. I feel awful that I know. I bet he is planning something so nice. Tonight a friend called and asked me to go out with her during the day on my b-day. I figured this was very coincedental. Anyway, sorry for the tanget, just upset that I saw this information.
jennbaby Posted:

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MAKE LIKE YOU KNOW NOTHING
allure Posted:

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I agree w/Jennbaby
SweetCin704 Posted:

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I'm sorry you saw.

If I was you, I'd pretend I never saw it. He's such a sweetie for planning it.

I know it doesn't make it better, but I'm sure sooner/later someone would have slipped anyway.

prncssrachel Posted:

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Can I just say something....I was so afraid that this was going to another post with bad news Now, I understand being upset about seeing it, but just pretend for everyone else's sake that you didn't see it. It's still going to be wonderful! And I'm so glad this wasn't worse news! (I'm not trying to make light of your situation, just happy everything is essentially ok!)
KathysMOH Posted:

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You know he is planning something, but not sure when. My hubby knew I knew and kept on changing plans on me for my birthday weekend. In the end he almost surprised me, But The blinds were closed in the living room and I NEVER close the blinds, not to mention I saw his sisters car.........Don't worry. I am sure it will end up being a surprise for you!
Karen H Posted:

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And then again, it may really just be a coincidence that your friend called to ask you out on the very day of your birthday, and as for the spreadsheet, I've been know to use one just to keep track of birthday gift ideas for DH, and I list them as I think of them throughout the year. So he may be planning nothing more than a special gift!

kmcwed Posted:

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Yikes!! Try not to feel too horrible. It's not as if you went looking for it. And even though you know you are getting a surprise party, you still don't know all the specifics, so there will still be some surprises for you...

ChristineC68 Posted:

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Don't be so hard on yourself - it was an accident. You don't know the who, the where, etc - that part is still a surprise!!!

yabbobay Posted:

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Posted by prncssrachel

Can I just say something....I was so afraid that this was going to another post with bad news And I'm so glad this wasn't worse news! (I'm not trying to make light of your situation, just happy everything is essentially ok!)



I was thinking the same thing...and was so relieved to see it wasn't anything awful...


its hard to keep any surprise...so think of it this way...you most likely would have found out at some other time...
larryswife2be Posted:

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I'm so sorry you found out!

But act suprised an have fun anywayz, it must feel great to know yor FH was real thoughtful!

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