I am sooo tired

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by ThongLori

I know what you mean, I have like 3.5 jobs LOL

1. Day job
2. Busy side business
3. Wedding Planner
3.5. Chore-Doer

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tell me about it
1. day job
2. helping dad re-do kitchen and bath (oh all before the day)
3. wedding planning
4. mediator and recipiant of family BS
5. wedding planning
6. Chore-doer
7.WEDDING PLANNER

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take a deep breath and remember why you are getting married in the first place. i have come to the realization that the perfection that i was seeking in everything is only going to be noticed by me, and that i will not make everyone happy.

don't sweat the small stuff your day will be great no matter what.

lists are my friends and they keep me in check, and i always feel good when i cross stuff off.

The planning may be getting hectic but remember the end result...the biggest , most exciting day of your life!!! Hang in there! It is gonna SOOOO be worth it all!!

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Posted by oct.2004bride

Everyday i am running around doing a million things....I am exhausted...And i still have a lot to do
I just feel like i am being pulled in sooo many direction that i am just going to break..

I used to think that planning this wedding was the time of my life...but it is now taking a toll...

sorry i had to vent

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I know how you feel
Now with this houses drama and work stress I feel like I am not going to survive And I might have a broken nose.

I went to sleep last night at 5:30 pm and didn't wake up until 7:00am. I feel a little better now

I know exactly how you feel. The days are starting to run into each other. We went for the tuxes the other night and the guy at the store says you have to get all of your guys in here by next weekend.

Thats great try getting 8 groomsmen, 2 fathers, and 2 ring bearers all into be measured in a week and a half.

I know exactly how you feel!!! Last night I spent the few hours I have to relax when I got home from work with the phone glued to my ear! I feel like I have 8 thousand phone calls to make, a million thank you cards to write, not to mention the rest of the wedding stuff left to do!! And somehow in the middle of all this my family still finds time to ask me for favors like 'fix my computer'!!! I was feeling so overwhelmed last night too!!!

They tell us it will all be worth it Oct.2004!!

We have all been there. Its so sad- I can't wait for my wedding to be here- not just to get married- but to STOP PLANNING Its totally normal. Just remember to take a day for yourself. Go on dates wtih FH and spend whole days not talking about wedding stuff.

I am soooo glad i am not alone
thanks girls

WOW!!! Where's your family and friends? I've always helped my friends and family...and man, is it alot of hard work. My advice...secure help before you go nuts!!!!

They are there and VERY helpful actually...but when there is a month left and you are running around looking at guest books and card bags, checking out your CP's and taking dancing lessons, also helping my dad re-do his bathroom and kitchen, figuring out exactly how i want my programs to look as well as my menu's (thanks Flacataca )...
I HAVE to be involved in everything, so even though i have family and friends AND LILW GALs to help me out...in the end i have to be there and i have to make the final decisions