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I am ticked off beyond belief (Very Long)

BKtoLI Posted:

I am ticked off beyond belief (Very Long)

So today I had my suspicions confirmed about my shower. Funny thing is I wasn't even trying to ask questions or anything. If I thought my dad was bad at leaking information, my mother is worse!!!

So because my MOH (my cousin) was in the process of getting her dress and the shop was giving her a hard time, I called the salon and all was well. So I called my mom to get my cousin's cell # to let her know. What happens?

Me: Mom, can you give me Vanessa's cell number? I have to call her about her dress.

Mom: You do know that you have to get up early tomorrow, get dressed up and be somewhere, don't you?

Now why on earth she would say this is beyond me. But anyway, on goes the convo.

Me: I had suspicions, but no I didn't know, but thanks for telling me now when I wasn't supposed to know.

Mom: Well then how the hell do they plan on getting you there if you didn't know about it?

I realize this is a good point. No one had said anything to me about meeting them somewhere or picking me up. And FH was saying he was going to sleep in tomorrow because he was still tired from last weekend. Which meant he didn't know either.

So I outright asked Andrew if we were supposed to go anywhere this weekend because I have errands to run. He said no. I said well then I guess 20 people will be sitting around waiting for me to show up to a shower that no one has bothered to plan on how I'm getting there. He started laughing asking how did I know for sure it was tomorrow. I told him my mother's slip up.

What then ensued for the next 2 hours was a lot of screaming. Between me calling my parents, and FH calling Lord knows who, we both had realized what had happened. My MOH had dropped the ball yet again. My father was cursing and screaming about my aunt and my cousin (which is completely NOT like him, he only does that when he's angry) and saying he will never speak to them again after all of this.

FH finally said everything was taken care of about 2 hours later. (This also included a screaming match between FH and me) He told me my cousin assumed someone told him to take me there. How the hell she thought this I don't know considering she was the only person I gave his information to (other than Darlene).

I am still somewhat pissed off because this whole entire shower has just been a headache from day one. I've known way more than I should have. Granted, tomorrow I'll just be very thankful and happy, but knowing me, I will still be pissed down inside. My girls going tomorrow, I will need your help not to blow up at my family!!!

29 days to go......someone please tell me it gets better!!!
MayBride06 Posted:

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Love you!!! Don't be ticked!!
gina674 Posted:

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I hope it does get better... But here are some hugs anyway!!!!! Think happy thoughts! And the fact that in 30 days you'll be going on a great HM!!!!!
SweetCin704 Posted:

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Awwwwwwwwww Janna, sorry the shower business is causing so much stress.

Sounds like it is all worked out & I hope you are able to relax & enjoy your shower tomorrow....don't get caught up in the stress of the details, etc., try to make the most of the day....

I know its majorly stressful, hang in there...it will get better
October Bliss Posted:

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CTarantino Posted:

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Throwing these your way..
Sorry! I know what you mean I blew up the other day then turned around and was like what.
Stress!!!!!!! Messes with you! Don't let it or try not to let it.
We will get through this soon! Good luck and have a great day!!!!!!! Enjoy!
beautyq115 Posted:

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esb980 Posted:

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M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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Oh Janna....just enjoy your shower to the fullest girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy enjoy enjoy! Forget about everything else hun!!!!!!!
Jbriggs Posted:

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BKtoLI Posted:

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Oh Janna....just enjoy your shower to the fullest girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy enjoy enjoy! Forget about everything else hun!!!!!!!



I know, I'm over it. But my father is completely pissed off at how they have butchered anything that has been done for me. Had my FH not called last night, everyone would have been sitting there waiting for me to show up and I would have been home sleeping because no one told me anything!!



At least it's a nice day outside!!!
EJSD2006 Posted:

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Don't worry, I'm in the same boat! I feel like I planned my wedding AND my shower too!!!! You want something done right, you do it yourself. Try to relax and enjoy your shower!!!
MrsH1156 Posted:

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glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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You're going to have a great time at your shower, I just know it!
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Shower? What shower? Whats a shower? Do you have soap? A Loofah? Perhaps a nice body scrub? I have showers every day? GEEZ!


Whenever your shower may be... once you have it, you will enjoy it. Concentrate on you and Andrew and your friends who love you very much! And whatever happens, you just...

KEEP ON ROCKIN!!!
SillyBeans Posted:

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you'll have a great time, but I don't blame you for being pi$$ed
bayla Posted:

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aww i hope everything worked out
cmastro25 Posted:

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Hi Janna,

I hadn't seen this original post. So I know that you've had the shower and it all worked out, but I wanted to send these your way.
beautyq115 Posted:

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So glad everything worked out Janna...and better than you expected You deserve it!

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