I am ticked off beyond belief (Very Long)
So today I had my suspicions confirmed about my shower. Funny thing is I wasn't even trying to ask questions or anything. If I thought my dad was bad at leaking information, my mother is worse!!!
So because my MOH (my cousin) was in the process of getting her dress and the shop was giving her a hard time, I called the salon and all was well. So I called my mom to get my cousin's cell # to let her know. What happens?
Me: Mom, can you give me Vanessa's cell number? I have to call her about her dress.
Mom: You do know that you have to get up early tomorrow, get dressed up and be somewhere, don't you?
Now why on earth she would say this is beyond me. But anyway, on goes the convo.
Me: I had suspicions, but no I didn't know, but thanks for telling me now when I wasn't supposed to know.
Mom: Well then how the hell do they plan on getting you there if you didn't know about it?
I realize this is a good point. No one had said anything to me about meeting them somewhere or picking me up. And FH was saying he was going to sleep in tomorrow because he was still tired from last weekend. Which meant he didn't know either.
So I outright asked Andrew if we were supposed to go anywhere this weekend because I have errands to run. He said no. I said well then I guess 20 people will be sitting around waiting for me to show up to a shower that no one has bothered to plan on how I'm getting there. He started laughing asking how did I know for sure it was tomorrow. I told him my mother's slip up.
What then ensued for the next 2 hours was a lot of screaming. Between me calling my parents, and FH calling Lord knows who, we both had realized what had happened. My MOH had dropped the ball yet again. My father was cursing and screaming about my aunt and my cousin (which is completely NOT like him, he only does that when he's angry) and saying he will never speak to them again after all of this.
FH finally said everything was taken care of about 2 hours later. (This also included a screaming match between FH and me) He told me my cousin assumed someone told him to take me there. How the hell she thought this I don't know considering she was the only person I gave his information to (other than Darlene).
I am still somewhat pissed off because this whole entire shower has just been a headache from day one. I've known way more than I should have. Granted, tomorrow I'll just be very thankful and happy, but knowing me, I will still be pissed down inside. My girls going tomorrow, I will need your help not to blow up at my family!!!
29 days to go......someone please tell me it gets better!!!
So because my MOH (my cousin) was in the process of getting her dress and the shop was giving her a hard time, I called the salon and all was well. So I called my mom to get my cousin's cell # to let her know. What happens?
Me: Mom, can you give me Vanessa's cell number? I have to call her about her dress.
Mom: You do know that you have to get up early tomorrow, get dressed up and be somewhere, don't you?
Now why on earth she would say this is beyond me. But anyway, on goes the convo.
Me: I had suspicions, but no I didn't know, but thanks for telling me now when I wasn't supposed to know.
Mom: Well then how the hell do they plan on getting you there if you didn't know about it?
I realize this is a good point. No one had said anything to me about meeting them somewhere or picking me up. And FH was saying he was going to sleep in tomorrow because he was still tired from last weekend. Which meant he didn't know either.
So I outright asked Andrew if we were supposed to go anywhere this weekend because I have errands to run. He said no. I said well then I guess 20 people will be sitting around waiting for me to show up to a shower that no one has bothered to plan on how I'm getting there. He started laughing asking how did I know for sure it was tomorrow. I told him my mother's slip up.
What then ensued for the next 2 hours was a lot of screaming. Between me calling my parents, and FH calling Lord knows who, we both had realized what had happened. My MOH had dropped the ball yet again. My father was cursing and screaming about my aunt and my cousin (which is completely NOT like him, he only does that when he's angry) and saying he will never speak to them again after all of this.
FH finally said everything was taken care of about 2 hours later. (This also included a screaming match between FH and me) He told me my cousin assumed someone told him to take me there. How the hell she thought this I don't know considering she was the only person I gave his information to (other than Darlene).
I am still somewhat pissed off because this whole entire shower has just been a headache from day one. I've known way more than I should have. Granted, tomorrow I'll just be very thankful and happy, but knowing me, I will still be pissed down inside. My girls going tomorrow, I will need your help not to blow up at my family!!!
29 days to go......someone please tell me it gets better!!!