I am turning into an indecisive lunatic!

My FH is going to kill me. I've dragged him to, no joke, 17 photographers, and I can't make a decision. He really likes one of them but something just isn't sitting right with me with that photographer and I don't know what. He's super nice, great pictures, very willing to negotiate the price and I'm so wishy washy about it. The ones I've liked, FH didn't like at all (That guy is a jerk, that woman is a flake, his albums are crap, I'm not listening to her voice all day I'll go crazy, etc.). I don't know what to do! FH refuses to look at anybody else. He said he's shopped enough and I have to make a decision. I think I'm kind of indecisive b/c nobody on here has really used them and one of my best friends who I personally think has bad taste is using them. But the reviews he has gotten on here are really good. What is my problem?! I am totally stressed about it. Sorry, thanks for letting me vent.

Re: I am turning into an indecisive lunatic!

Have you looked at any that have good reviews here?

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Posted by mrsh2b

My FH is going to kill me. I've dragged him to, no joke, 17 photographers, and I can't make a decision. He really likes one of them but something just isn't sitting right with me with that photographer and I don't know what. He's super nice, great pictures, very willing to negotiate the price and I'm so wishy washy about it. The ones I've liked, FH didn't like at all (That guy is a jerk, that woman is a flake, his albums are crap, I'm not listening to her voice all day I'll go crazy, etc.). I don't know what to do! FH refuses to look at anybody else. He said he's shopped enough and I have to make a decision. I think I'm kind of indecisive b/c nobody on here has really used them and one of my best friends who I personally think has bad taste is using them. But the reviews he has gotten on here are really good. What is my problem?! I am totally stressed about it. Sorry, thanks for letting me vent.

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Who is the photographer??

Re: I am turning into an indecisive lunatic!

Its tough, we want only the best for our weddings and it can be overwhelming. You need to be comfortable with your decision.....I agree with the other post, maybe try doing some searches for reviews on the ones you are considering--im sure someone has to have used them!! i picked a photog that not a ton of people on this site have used, but Im confident with their work and I know I made the right decision for me.

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My photographer is also not mentioned that often but all the reviews I read where so great. I am so please I booked him.

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Hi: (I know u r).

Its too early for you to turn into a lunatic. Have you tried Gray Studios in Floral Park. Their website is graystudios.com They are great and have been around for years. I know 2 people who have used them for weddings and we're happy. I would use them, but I think they are out of my price range. Don't worry it'll work out. By the way your F.H. sounds like me. If i don't like the person's voice or personality, I won't book them either.

Take it easy girl.
Joyce.

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If something isn't sitting right with you DON'T book!! I looked at 25 halls, 7 photographers and 14 florists before selecting each of those vendors. The last thing you need on your day is something or someone making you uncomfortable.

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Maybe I'm too easy going... FH and I only looked at 3 photographers... but really, in a lot of ways they are all the same. you've looked at 17!!!! making it 18, 19, or 20 is only going to make you more confused. you say FH likes him, the pictures are great, the price is good, the guy is nice.... i say go for it already! good luck!!