I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

Bobbysgirl Posted: Dec 02, 2005 10:54 PM

I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

It went really well!

I gave them each a double folding frame.. one side a poem and the other side a pic of me and that person!

My MOH's was a little different though and so was my flower girl..

BUT..... then one of my BM's who I am pretty close with (not as close as my MOH though) and who I've known for a long time.. gets funny at the end of the night.

I text one of my other BM's after we all left to see what was up with this one girl and she told me that she was upset bc she thought I would be having 2 moh's!

So I was talking to this BM who is upset with me online.. she doesn't mention anything to me but is all funny... telling me that she will be fine... and that she'll be ok in time.. but not telling me whats up! BUT I KNOW FROM MY OTHER BM!

I can't believe there is drama already!

Thanks for listening to me vent!

Here is some pics of their gifts. Each BM got a personalized pic #1, pic #2 is for my MOH, and pic #3 is for my FG.

chellynyc Posted: Dec 02, 2005 11:12 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

Repost also from BHB -
I like your idea how you asked them, I didn't have any - I just came out and asked them. I'm sorry you have the drama - it will pass over time. You have to do what's best for you - it's yours and FH's day. You can try to keep everyone happy, but it will be hard - just make sure you and FH are happy.

JazzyT Posted: Dec 02, 2005 11:13 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

OMG.... very nice and personal
and there will always be drama can't please everyone.

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Dec 02, 2005 11:15 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

That is so cute. I love them all. Sorry to hear about the drama though. What is wrong with everyone? Great idea with the pictures.

Soon2BeMrsD Posted: Dec 02, 2005 11:52 PM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

aww that was so nice of you! i just asked them to be in mine i didnt think of giving them anything drama drama drama it seems to always be around, dont worry itll be okie!

Nina Posted: Dec 03, 2005 12:39 AM

Re: I asked my ladies to be BM's tonight.....Repost BHB

Those are soo cute!!
Where did you get the poems from? I love them!!!
Don't worry about the drama...it will be okay...they should feel blesse that they have EVEN been asked to be in the bridal party..that alone is a blessing of its own...it'll all go over soon!!

Love the gifts!!