I broke off my engagement

Original post by aliciahelene

Sep 15, 2003 03:08 PM

I want to say this once because Im not very happy, thois has been the roughest few months of my life, weve had alot of stress and insted of handling like two people in love, we are ripping at each other. I broke off my engagement today, Im very sad..but I have so many people FMing me about vendors and such , and i really just dont feel like talking about any of it right now. I feel like cralwing into a hole and hiding for ahwile. Thanks everyone for all of the support that I know you are about to send my way...I will be fine though.

cookiek1 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:12 PM

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I am so sorry that you have to go through this I wish you all the best

firegal Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:16 PM

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My heart goes out to you. Best of luck in your future.

mv1003 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:16 PM

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Alicia
I'm sending you an FM. and hundreds of

Alvatorre74 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:17 PM

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tommybride Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:21 PM

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this is a tough thing to go through
I haert goes out to you

the next few days are gonna be rough
the next month is gonna be rough.
and it will linger for a while afte rthat

just pick up your head and try not to think about it
and try to have fun, and always be safe about what you do. now is the time for rash decisions. keep the peace and think everything through

I only say this cause I wethrough the same thing
and in my case it was for the better
and I learned alot

-Tom

larryswife2be Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:26 PM

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Aww Alicia,

I'm so sorry

Snowboardgirl Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:27 PM

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I'm sorry.

Sweetie2004 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:50 PM

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Ab12345 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:52 PM

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Alicia,

I feel so bad for you. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Please call me if you need to talk. I'll FM you.

Maribelle7777 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:54 PM

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Alicia I'm sorry to read this, I hope that you will start to feel better soon......all the best

Julybaby Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:56 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time right now.

Sassyz75 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 04:59 PM

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I'm so sorry girl- hang in there- and if you ever want a grab a drink in Hoboken, let me know.

palebride Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:00 PM

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all the best to you!!!

Kelly9904 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:02 PM

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I wish you all the best as you work through all of this!!!!

jannshari Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:27 PM

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I admire the strength that it took for you to make such a decision. I hope that your heart heals quickly and that you are able to go on to have a wonderful, happy life. Good luck to you.

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:32 PM

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neen Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:36 PM

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Stay strong. So sorry.

Marcela1654 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:39 PM

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Alicia: I'm so sorry!! HUGS

ETA: Alicia, you have FM.

MrsBtoBe2005 Posted: Sep 15, 2003 05:53 PM

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I'm very sorry to hear your news. I also called of an engagement a few years ago. My story is very similar to Mich1108's. Long term relationship, I lost a lot of $$ in deposits etc, and I agree that it doesn't compare to what I would have lost, not just money wise, but emotionally. You made a very difficult decision and I give you a lot of credit. I also just wanted to let you know that from someone else who's been through this, I'm here to listen. It took me awhile to want to really talk about anything that happened, but when I did, the support on this board was incredible. I have Jennbaby to thank. She was one of the ladies on here that really helped me through it. My thoughts are with you, stay strong...