I can totally understand

why LIW does not permit sales pitches on here, including private messaging. I'm on a local Moms site, although not at all anymore, because it's mostly for younger Moms, and today I was all excited about the alert from the site that I had a new private message, except they don't have any cute little boxes dropping!!! It was only a sales pitch, from a lady who wanted to sell me something. Mary MOB