My FH is actually telling me now (1 year later) things or a thing that bothered him way back when we were only dating..(not serious). I am completely floored!!! Why now?? Why not tell me then? And to top it off ..he's bringing up someone I dated WAY before I even met him. ***??? He has GOT to be kidding me. I don't need this sh** today..or ever!! He's NEVER like this! I can only assume it's the stress of the wedding/work..or whatever. But seriously...you are going to start doubting me NOW..over some a-hole I dated before HIM?? OMG!!!!!!!!
krispyc
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Maybe it's just that since the wedding is fast approaching he's trying to reconcile his feelings of 'this is it!' I'm not saying at all that he isn't sure he wants to marry you but you know how men can be when it comes to committment. Try not to get too upset as I'm sure deep down it has nothing to do with you personally!
LaurenluvsTJ
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Why did this come up? Did he just say this stuff out of the blue or did something trigge it? I am sure its no big deal, guys are just stupid like that sometimes.
Mitabtrfly
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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ
Why did this come up? Did he just say this stuff out of the blue or did something trigge it? I am sure its no big deal, guys are just stupid like that sometimes.
I have NO idea. NONE whatsoever. I have NEVER given him any reason to doubt me..and have never been happier in a relationship. I'm so pissed
pullmandi
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Oh, no. You know, as wedding dates come near, people start to really think about commitment, etc. It's probably normal to freak out a little but he needs to think carefully about what he says to you that he might regret. Is he bringing up this person because he thinks you have feelings for him? We all have doubts, fears, etc. but we usually keep them to ourselves and then they pass.
