I can't help but worry...

Melissa Posted: Mar 03, 2003 07:42 PM

I can't help but worry...

You've probably read my post about us trying to have a baby... well, tomorrow I have an OB/GYN appointment for a regular exam, now that we're trying, I can't help but worry that they're going to tell me that something is wrong with me, or that I have cancer or something! It's just that having a baby is so important to me, I don't want anything to be wrong, you know! My DH keeps assuring me that everything is fine, but I can't believe that. HELP! Thanks!

BriarRose Posted: Mar 03, 2003 07:50 PM

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Here's to everthing going great at your appt. tommorow!! Lots of baby vibes to you!!

kptoys Posted: Mar 03, 2003 07:52 PM

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Everything will be fine. Good luck anyway!!!

michele31 Posted: Mar 03, 2003 08:04 PM

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If you have normally had healthy GYN visits the chances are soooooo slim that you really don't have to worry very much. Of course, I think all women get worried that something will be wrong during their annual exam. You should read the book
Taking Control of Your Fertility Melissa. It is amazing and has helped me soooo much to understand my body and what happens during my cycles.

NovemberSue Posted: Mar 03, 2003 08:28 PM

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I'm sure everything is fine.I know people who were trying to have children for a while and nothing was happening.The minute they forgot about it for a little while and just went away together,poof.......
they got pregnant.I hope you have success soon.
Baby dust to you.**********************

LnP2003 Posted: Mar 03, 2003 08:36 PM

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Everything will be fine honey!!! You guys are probably just 'trying' too hard.... LoL... I though that was the fun part!

Big hugs from everyone at LIW!!!!!!!!!!!!

Melissa Posted: Mar 03, 2003 10:27 PM

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Thanks everyone! I'm not so much worried about being able to get pregnant, I am but besides that, (we just started trying a few days ago) I'm afraid they'll just tell me something is wrong in general. Not just with getting pregnant. I know I worry too much... I can't help it! I just want a baby sooo bad, that with my luck, things will go wrong. I'm trying not to worry!

kptoys Posted: Mar 04, 2003 08:56 AM

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Melissa you will be fine!!! Dont get yourself worked up. It just causes stress you dont need when you are trying to get prego. Let us know how you are. I will be thinking about you

Claud2001 Posted: Mar 04, 2003 11:00 AM

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Melissa, you need to calm down now...really! Getting yourself nervous and worked up now will only cause you problems during the TTC process. What is meant to be, will be. There is no way to predict how long it will take you to become pregnant or how quickly. Every woman (and man) is different and there are so many factors that could effect this.

Good luck w/your OB appointment...and if I can offer you a little advice...use your energy to develop a list of specific questions you want to ask your OB. Use the doctor's time wisely and gather as much info as possible regarding TTC.

Best wishes to you and RELAX!