I can't seem to make a decision about anything other than the hall because I'm afraid if I do, and put down a deposit I will regret it. I'm driving myself and my FH crazy. We got engaged in Nov. so I though I had so much time with 18 months until the wedding but now it seems like it will only be a year soon and I feel like I should have stuff done by then.
Is anyone else having this problem?
hmpena
Posted:
Member since
Re: I can't make a decision!!!
ME!! I was like that too! We just booked our photographer this week, after spending 3 weeks looking. We both knew after leaving Bill Minnick that we really liked him. But I kept getting nervous that there was someone better. I had to tell myself that there will always be someone better and more expensive. Once I realized I was doing this, I tried to think about what I didn't like about the photographer. I realized that my initial opinion didn't change and that it was just my anxiety. I am happy to report that I booked the photographer on Thursday and have no regrets. Sometimes you have to let go of the anxiety and make a choice. Good luck! FM me if you need support!!
leese
Posted:
Member since
Re: I can't make a decision!!!
Me too!
I am the worst when it comes to shopping - I have 'buyers regret'....I just returned my new cell phone for another one...I'm the worst.
When it comes to this wedding, i really want to make sure I am happy with everything no matter what. Part of me is also not wanting to 'let' go!!!
Ugh!
cmastro25
Posted:
Member since
Re: I can't make a decision!!!
The best advice I can give you is the really do your research before you even visit anyone. If anyone is interested, I compiled lists of potential Photographers and videographers and even linked to proofs I found from other brides on this site. I did the sam list for DJs. This way, I knew exactly who I wanted to see and knew I had the list of all the best I could find from reccomendations & research. I'll FM whoever wants the list.
LaurenluvsTJ
Posted:
Member since
Re: I can't make a decision!!!
Booking the dj was pretty easy for me, but I am having major issues with the photographer/videographer. No matter how much research I do, I just keep getting myself more confused!
lisad117
Posted:
Member since
Re: I can't make a decision!!!
Thank you everyone! All of your advice has been very helpful. I finally made a decision on the photographer- we are going to book Artisan and I feel much better now! Now onto Video and DJ's!!!
