I cant stand them.....VENT

tiff940 Posted: Dec 03, 2007 09:29 PM

I cant stand them.....VENT

FH sisters...and they are not in my wedding. My mom knows all the crap theyve put through throughout the years and she has the nerve to tell me Im being mean for not including them. She says that they should atleast walk in with the ushers in the beginning of the processional when FHs mom gets walked in and I said HELL NO! She made me so mad because she knows all the crap Ive been through with them and how they've disrespected me in the past and she expects me to include them in my wedding. No way. I have been thinking about my wedding forever and I dont think I should include anyone who doesnt respect me on my special day. I wouldnt include them in something I paid $1 on yet alone $75 K. Sorry had to vent!!!

empressdani Posted: Dec 03, 2007 09:33 PM

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you have every right not to include them if they have been evil to you and detrimental to you and FH's relationship. The persons in your bridal party are supposed to be there as a support for you then and for your marriage...

I don't have FH's sister in my BP not b/c she did anything just we're not close like that. Why should I...I've never been one doing things for the sake of etiquette anyway lol

SherinJeff Posted: Dec 03, 2007 11:03 PM

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Trust your insticts!!! This is YOUR day .. do not bend.

My ex's sisters were nothing but rude to me from the day they met me ( Im white , they are Hawaiian/asian and hated white people).
My ex MIL insisted both sisters were actually IN my wedding.
Every pic they were scowling. Makes me sick to think I caved.
I was 19 and naive..
Never again!
Good luck to you!

1nicetouch Posted: Dec 03, 2007 11:07 PM

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Im with you they have got to go. Keep them out of the wedding. Didn't you see the bridezillas episode when the brooms sister was fighting in the church with the bride its not even worth the stress.

JoesFutureWife Posted: Dec 03, 2007 11:09 PM

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It's your day and you should have the final say. If you dont feel comfortable then they shouldnt be in your wedding!!!

tiff940 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 12:53 PM

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Posted by SherinJeff

Trust your insticts!!! This is YOUR day .. do not bend.

My ex's sisters were nothing but rude to me from the day they met me ( Im white , they are Hawaiian/asian and hated white people).
My ex MIL insisted both sisters were actually IN my wedding.
Every pic they were scowling. Makes me sick to think I caved.
I was 19 and naive..
Never again!
Good luck to you!

Thats exactly how I feel....all my bridesmaids are going to be happy and excited and they will be sitting there with a screw face on. I wont have it.

kslmbuggie Posted: Dec 04, 2007 01:17 PM

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I wouldnt include them either. I hate when people expect you 2 be fake for weddings. If you dont talk to them every other day of the year, why in the world would u want them 2 be in your wedding.

Dont cave in....u dont want 2 have a moment like Bridezilla's with those 2 sisters who were the spawn of s a t a n.

hannahshim Posted: Dec 04, 2007 01:24 PM

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its your day do what u feel~
you dont need to invite them if they dont respect you!
I sure wouldnt.

mariaobride Posted: Dec 04, 2007 01:28 PM

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def trust your instincts and stand your grounds it will be so much better that way

futuremrsfab Posted: Dec 04, 2007 01:56 PM

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I'm sorry that they have been so mean to you- if you think it would help your relationship with them to include them, then i would- if it doesnt then screw 'em

skinny237 Posted: Dec 04, 2007 02:27 PM

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I've never been one to do 'obligation' anything. It's your wedding and u r not obligated to include them, especially if they have been mean 2 u. Do what makes U happy!