I have been so stressed lately on everything. I feel like I am ready to loose it. The closer it is coming to this wedding the more stressed I am getting. I am now 2nd guessing my hall and if they are going to do right by us. Jerry is getting feedback from customers of his saying the food there lately isnt good. I cant do anything about it now because all invitations have gone out. Between my dress, the hall, and the way people are responsing I just cant anymore.
Please tell me this is normal and that it will all be worth it in the end.
Windy
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Its completely normal. I had periods where I thought I was gonna have a nervous breakdown! Everything will be fine. Deep breaths and lots of wine.
Clover23
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awww sweetie it's totally normal.
AwaitingAugust
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it's totally normal .... don't worry - you will have the most amazing day ever and all the details you're stressing over won't even matter!
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u will be fine my love...trust me!
i know people that have been at weddings at oheka ,and when i asked how the food was their response was 'ehh'
so seriously DO NOT WORRRRRRRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MrsC2010
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oh celia, please don't cry. Your wedding is going to be amazing. Just remember that this is about you and Jerry and none of the other stuff really matters! You're dress and hall and everything will work out...you are going to look beautiful and you are going to have a fabulous time. If some people don't want to come then so be it. Don't let that ruin the day of your dreams. Cheer up hun!!!
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CELIA!
its going to be great. your guests will have a great time. you are going to look beautiful and its going to be the most amazing day for you guys...
<3 <3 <3
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It's normal to feel like this. You sound like you need a 'wedding free' week! No planning, no buying, no talking! Just a little something to break the monotony of the wedding stuff. When the day gets here, it's going to go by faster than you can say I do. And then, it's done. So try to relax..
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oh no! i feel your pain. i cried at my desk FOUR times today. i'm so stressed and i feel like NO ONE understands.
the important thing is you're marrying jerry. eff the food, eff the hall. you two are in love and the people there love you so they will have fun and you will have fun!!!
now i just have to remember that.
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Future Mrs H
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Thanks guys! I do have to remember when It is all said and done I am marrying the love of my life and thats all that matters. Not the food, the dress of how people respond. I just poured a huge glass of wine and will try to relax.
Thanks again- you all can understand me better than anyone else
I love you guys
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It will definitely be all worth it in the end. It is completely natural to be going through this at this point. People just dont realize how stressful it all is and how much it means to you but trust me, your day will be absolutely amazing and you wont give a S h yt what anyone has to say because its your day. Ppl will always have something to say no matter what you do but dont waste your time with their crap! Even if every detail isnt the way you planned it, (which believe me, it happens)...it doesnt matter because you will remember that your and FH's love for one another is the whole reason you guys are there in the first place, and it will just all feel right.
Honestly Celia, the day will be so amazing for you. just remember to take it all in
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wenR
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It will b just fine. You will b so busy on ur day that u won't even notice anything else. The most important thing to rmember is that ur getting married!!! F the rest!
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this is normal and it will be worth it! ......i spent my entire day the other day crying and almost called off the wedding because I was soo overwhelmed. It will be ok, I promise
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it must be normal because i am going through the same thing this week... i'm getting married next sunday and all of a sudden i hate everything and i'm questioning every decision i've made about the wedding- the hall, my hair, photo/video, makeup, seating arrangements... i don't know what's wrong with me but if this doesnt stop i'm going to go crazy... so i'm hoping this is normal...
i just have to remember that whatever happens, the whole point of this day is that we are getting married and nothing else matters...
which is easier said than done
GR2010
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StaceyWill
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Awwwww Celia~everything is going to be fine!!! Remember I went there a few months ago and the food was GREAT!!!! Please don't worry
Future Mrs H
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Ok I am doing a little better right now. I need to have a me day- One day this week I may take off from work and do a facial and massage.
