I can't take it anymore!

So I have been getting nothing but grief from the FH over the planning of this wedding.

Now he wants to change the RH and the date!

And I'm trying to quit smoking on top of everything, so as you can imagine I am having a bit of a hard time.

I'm sorry...that s u c k s!

Why does he want to change the RH & date??

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Posted by belle127

I'm sorry...that s u c k s!

Why does he want to change the RH & date??

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He doesnt like the fact that it is on Friday the 13th and he thinks that his Dad will be able to get us a deal on a more expensive RH that we couldnt previously afford.

I just wish that if he had a problem with the date that he would have stated it before we booked the church and had the RH holding the date.

I just want to have it all settled. And I am perfectly happy with the RH that we picked originally

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Posted by michesq

sorry to here that. why the change?

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He doesnt like the fact that it is on Friday the 13th and he thinks that his Dad will be able to get us a deal on a more expensive RH that we couldnt previously afford.

I just wish that if he had a problem with the date that he would have stated it before we booked the church and had the RH holding the date.

I just want to have it all settled. And I am perfectly happy with the RH that we picked originally

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by belle127

I'm sorry...that s u c k s!

Why does he want to change the RH & date??

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He doesnt like the fact that it is on Friday the 13th and he thinks that his Dad will be able to get us a deal on a more expensive RH that we couldnt previously afford.

I just wish that if he had a problem with the date that he would have stated it before we booked the church and had the RH holding the date.

I just want to have it all settled. And I am perfectly happy with the RH that we picked originally

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Wow....I agree he should have told you he had a problem with the date before you booked the church and RH. And I totally understand how you feel about wanting to have everything settled. My FH didn't get that point either.

I would talk to him and tell him how you're feeling, and that you like your current RH. It might not be so bad to get a good deal on a more expensive place, but only if you like it. But if you have your heart set on your current RH, then you should stay there. Bottom line is you should have it in the place that you like the most, and can see yourself in, no matter the price.

I hope everything works out. I know it's tough to quit smoking too, but it's a good things, so try and not let this affect your quitting.

Good luck!

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Posted by belle127

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Posted by kmiller

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Posted by belle127

I'm sorry...that s u c k s!

Why does he want to change the RH & date??

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He doesnt like the fact that it is on Friday the 13th and he thinks that his Dad will be able to get us a deal on a more expensive RH that we couldnt previously afford.

I just wish that if he had a problem with the date that he would have stated it before we booked the church and had the RH holding the date.

I just want to have it all settled. And I am perfectly happy with the RH that we picked originally

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Wow....I agree he should have told you he had a problem with the date before you booked the church and RH. And I totally understand how you feel about wanting to have everything settled. My FH didn't get that point either.

I would talk to him and tell him how you're feeling, and that you like your current RH. It might not be so bad to get a good deal on a more expensive place, but only if you like it. But if you have your heart set on your current RH, then you should stay there. Bottom line is you should have it in the place that you like the most, and can see yourself in, no matter the price.

I hope everything works out. I know it's tough to quit smoking too, but it's a good things, so try and not let this affect your quitting.

Good luck!

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Thank you!

I'm sorry to hear he's stressing you out. I hope everything works out okay!

Grrrr men!

aw i'm sorry. **HUGS**

I'm sorry that really s u c ks!

Good luck with quitting smoking tho i've made it a year this month!

Sorry that your FH is giving problems. Best thing is to compromise in the end.

BTW, good for you quitting smoking. I quit 2 years ago on January 1st, 2006. It's the best thing I ever did for myself. And, I was a very heavy smoker for 10 years. If I can do it, anyone can. No one thought I would ever kick the habit.

I'm so sorry. Hopefully he'll come around. Fh drives me crazy too, every time I think we are set on the date, he revisits this fall again. Drives me crazy. So I so know how you feel. Good luck, I hope it all works for you.

So I just figured I would let everyone know that I was able to get the date at both the church and RH.

So- I told him and he was so happy and thanked me for being so flexible and told me that I was the best.

How can I be mad?

At least now though I can always reference how 'flexible' I was in changing the date when he wants to change something else in the future and I want to say no.

I'm sorry!!!