I have had my third break-down this week. Tears and all. I am soo stressed...what was I thinking buying a house and trying to pay for the wedding at the same time. I have no clue how I am going to get through the next 4 months without a serious breakdown. MY FH says to stop worrying and we will be okay, we just have to get through the wedding. I know we got a great deal on our house and I cant wait to close on it and move in, but it is still stressful! I planned most of my wedding months and months ago so I would not be stressed towards the end and I could just sit back and enjoy it and now with 4 months to go I am more stressed than ever! I need a drink!
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lilpiggy742
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Kerin2804
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Everything will be ok !!!
Browneyesncute
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take a day out for y ou and fh go on a date or do something you enjoy together. no wedding our house talk just enjoy each other! it will make you feel better!! GL!
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Everything will be OK...it is a strefful time....with the wedding and the house..but it iwll work out!
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FinallyEngaged
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I am going through the same exact thing right now... we just signed the contract on a house last week. I am going nuts!
If you need someone to vent to, feel free to FM me... we can vent to eachother
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I have had my third break-down this week. Tears and all. I am soo stressed...what was I thinking buying a house and trying to pay for the wedding at the same time. I have no clue how I am going to get through the next 4 months without a serious breakdown. MY FH says to stop worrying and we will be okay, we just have to get through the wedding. I know we got a great deal on our house and I cant wait to close on it and move in, but it is still stressful! I planned most of my wedding months and months ago so I would not be stressed towards the end and I could just sit back and enjoy it and now with 4 months to go I am more stressed than ever! I need a drink!
Vent over
I am in the same boat!!!!!!! FH is getting sicking of my stress but all I can think about is all the $$$$$$ we are spending on this wedding. Our renovations in our house way WAY over what we expected and now we are trying to have a budget (mind you, both of us are not used to living on a budget).
I know you don't want to hear this, but I have 46 days left and it only gets worse and worse as the days go on. Wait til you have to decorate your house....and have to deal with all the details from hair, to limo, to photographers times, etc.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
anddddd to top it off, i got %^&* and am losing money on my bachelorette party...and it's a substantial amount of money...that i cannot handle losing right now!!!!!
seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee you are not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i hope all us brides get through all of this and are sane by the end of the wedding!!!!!
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take a deep breath and calm down..weddings are stressing, im about to jump out the bridge myself , but remember that at the end ur wedding will be beautiful..just be postive and try not to stress..ask relatives or close friends to give u a hand ...=) good luck.. p.s if u go for the drink let me know..lol
pa56
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stay positive!
KK Holiday
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this one's on me
ant090608
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Don't worry - I am not going to lie you are probably going to be more stressed out as your wedding day approaches. We had our house for 2 months, and it felt like we had so much time. Now, I am counting the days hoping that we can make it at least semi decent for september. Remember the week before the wedding don't count on doing anything for the house- you will be busy with the wedding and all the odds and ends for the big day. Bottomline, it will be your house and your future. Try to stay calm and do as much as you can.
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dont worry everything will work out. the best thing you can do is to really try not to let it make you crazy.
Enjoy it...you just got a house AND your getting married. These are great moments
melissatam2008
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Posted by KK Holiday
this one's on me
that martini looks delicious..lol
GinaZ
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ya that must be stressful. But itll all work out and be great. Just try to relax and have yourself a nice glass of wine!
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Gigi08
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Let it out...you need to relieve the stress. It's a shame that with all the planning, no matter how organized we may be, there seems to be no avoiding the stress as it gets closer. Take one thing at a time, and it will all work out. Even if things don't work out as originally planned, they have a way of working themselves in the end. I'm sure I'll have to remind myself of this again and again over the next couple of months!
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Thank you ladies for all your support. I feel better tonight (I picked up my invitations). I got excited when I saw them! I am still stressed, but I guess I just need to take it one day at a time!
