I can't wait until all this is over...VENT.. Long

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Nov 22, 2009 12:04 AM

I can't wait until all this is over...VENT.. Long

... I am da*n near outside my mind... My friends are (rightfully) losing their patience because I don't get back to them for days.

I hate all this little stuff we have to do... with the hotel blocks and the invitation lists... we're in the middle of apartment hunting... FH is looking for a job, so that's not helping. My job is wicked stressful and there's JUST. NO. TIME.

All this saving for the wedding, and FH and I can't afford to DO anything so we're sitting in the house getting cabin fever.

I want to be married, but I really could do without the wedding. How do you all keep it together...? I am such a cranky biotch lately. I don't even like hanging out with myself.

asg450 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 12:20 AM

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aw, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. We all have our own ways of dealing with the stress, I guess mine is complaining to my MOH's about whatever is driving me crazy. Surprisingly they haven't told me to shut up yet.

I hope you find a way to cope and keep your sanity.

Ray8183 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 12:53 AM

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futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 01:07 AM

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You are not alone, i'm going through so much right now that i wanna take wedding break. It can become very overwhelming, all i can say is just hang in there things will get better

jmt1108 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 01:10 AM

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I completely understand! I am cranky and cry wayyy too easily some days... I don't even talk to my BMs about chosing their dresses because I havent made a decision and I feel like they must be sick of hearing about it! I am sick of talking about it! But at least there is that countdown up there... somehow we will get it all done (ie - lots more stress and decisions) but THEN I get two weeks in hawaii and then a lifetime with the one i love! It's GOT TO get better than this!! :)

M_Berk-Glenn Posted: Nov 22, 2009 02:40 AM

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I know that feeling very well. Thats exactly why FH & I switched to a destination wedding...it was becomming WAY TOOO MUCH. We were really unhappy and soooo stressed.

It will get better...When that day comes it will all be worth it.

Try to take a moment for yourself each day...maybe you & FH can take a walk to relax, a stroll, and dont talk abt the wedding

Jtruran Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:01 AM

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I feel the SAME way!! I can't stand the wedding process anymore; I just have no help and we have NO money...you are not alone! I really want it to be over already!...Good luck!

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:06 AM

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it will all be worth it in the end

es2189 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:08 AM

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i'm sorry you're feeling this way!!

20mrsc10 Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:14 AM

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CloudNine Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:19 AM

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i think we all hit that point at some time or another.
keep everything spaced out. only take on one thing at a time..maybeeee 2 if you can handle it. thats what i did...i gave myself sufficient time to do everything in a timely fashion.

sometimes though i would just hit a wall and get rreally stressed and overwhelmed, it will pass.

i thought justin just got a new job..things not working out?

mariedsgn Posted: Nov 22, 2009 09:29 AM

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aw! Joanne
things will get better, take a week away from planning and try to relax.

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Nov 22, 2009 11:36 AM

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Thanks, girlies! The job Justin got in July didn't work out (long story...). $hit happens, but that on top of everything else is too much. Hopefully, he'll be starting another job in the next week or two.

The invite thing has taken care of itself... thank god... but we've got hotel blocks which I don't even FEEL like doing... cause I don't know when there's time for that.

After those two things I think we'll be OK, but there's so much stuff going on outside the wedding that the wedding HAS to take a back seat... which makes the planning stressful, because from here on out it has to be all wedding all the time.

I you guys! It'll get better.. I just need to relax. Which is the plan today!

M_Berk-Glenn Posted: Nov 22, 2009 11:48 AM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Thanks, girlies! The job Justin got in July didn't work out (long story...). $hit happens, but that on top of everything else is too much. Hopefully, he'll be starting another job in the next week or two.

The invite thing has taken care of itself... thank god... but we've got hotel blocks which I don't even FEEL like doing... cause I don't know when there's time for that.

After those two things I think we'll be OK, but there's so much stuff going on outside the wedding that the wedding HAS to take a back seat... which makes the planning stressful, because from here on out it has to be all wedding all the time.

I you guys! It'll get better.. I just need to relax. Which is the plan today!

I did my hotel block over the phone & via email maybe you can too. That will take away the stress of going to the hotel.