I did it...ugh

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:45 AM

I did it...ugh

I just fired my Maidzilla MOH.....I tried to make it like a break up...it's not you ...it's me thing...ugh

I feel like vomiting but I know it the right think to do....

and when i am sad i just think about my fabulous wedding dress

fabulousmady Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:48 AM

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sorry to hear that but im sure you did the right thing. this will prevent any major headaches later

Jsquared279 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:48 AM

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Awww. Good for you! I am glad you did it! It really sounds like it was the best thing for you and the BP and the Wedding day and planning as a whole. What did she say?

babylin19 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:52 AM

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as if wedding planning isn't stressful enough! you don't need another headache on your hands...

yes...think of the beautiful dress!

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:53 AM

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Gotta do whatcha gotta do! lol

FutureMrsWildes Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:56 AM

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Aw, good - it'll make it less stressful later on!

baba022 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 09:57 AM

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Good for you!! And it may be a little bit of a headache now thinking of it, but it will be worth it in the end....What did she say when you told her?

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:08 AM

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Posted by baba022

Good for you!! And it may be a little bit of a headache now thinking of it, but it will be worth it in the end....What did she say when you told her?

nothing really...i think it was just shock

NickandTara426 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:11 AM

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aww!!! sorry to hear that! it must have been hard! everything will work out! i can only imagine it's hard to 'un-ask' someone i want to do it with my BM but we already ordered the dresses

ETA: some things need to be done. you know in your heart that you made the right choice!

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:16 AM

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Posted by NickandTara426

aww!!! sorry to hear that! it must have been hard! everything will work out! i can only imagine it's hard to 'un-ask' someone i want to do it with my BM but we already ordered the dresses

we did too...i have to give her
the money back...

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:27 AM

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I'm going through a similar situation myself. This was the same friend that wouldnt talk to me after I EMAILED her happy bday instead of calling her.

Im busy, I work hard, sometimes I cant....

SO needless to say, a huge rift has been created. I cut her off. 10 year friendship down the drain.

In the words of Steven from Laguna Beach 'I'm Done-zo'

melcc83 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:30 AM

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Im so sorry that must be rough. Everything happens for a reason and theres obviously a reason why you didnt want her to be your MOH.

evewedsjc Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:31 AM

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

I'm going through a similar situation myself. This was the same friend that wouldnt talk to me after I EMAILED her happy bday instead of calling her.

Im busy, I work hard, sometimes I cant....

SO needless to say, a huge rift has been created. I cut her off. 10 year friendship down the drain.

In the words of Steven from Laguna Beach 'I'm Done-zo'

Ditto on the Done-zo....

cedesnyc Posted: Jul 14, 2008 10:31 AM

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yikes......sorry to hear that!!! i can imagine it must be hard and terrible.

I've haven't been on the board since Thurs, therefore, Did i misssomething????

Anyhow, you have to do what's best for you....it'll be alright.

NickandTara426 Posted: Jul 14, 2008 11:00 AM

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Posted by evewedsjc

Posted by NickandTara426

aww!!! sorry to hear that! it must have been hard! everything will work out! i can only imagine it's hard to 'un-ask' someone i want to do it with my BM but we already ordered the dresses

we did too...i have to give her
the money back...

yikes... i paid for her dress so i guess it wouldn't matter but it's sort of like a waste of money for me and at least if she shows up to the wedding i'll be fine with it.