...but we went out to dinner and FH and I got into an arguement over nonesense. We were talking about the wedding and FH kept saying things like, 'oh please you stress about every little thing'. Or when we were talking about our honeymoon he said, 'why r u stressing its a trip like any other trip we've taken' I feel like he doesnt take it seriously.
so now we are in a 'fight'. I hate it.
Lsorrent
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If it makes you feel any better, FH and I have been fighting since Thursday. I haven't heard from him all weekend.
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aw hunn.. i think we ALLL go through that.
guys dont care about details, or what color the flowers are, or how high the ceiling in the rh is (trust me, mine made it clear that he doesnt care lol)
thats why u have US!!!!
he loves u, hes just not a gay.
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Posted by grkbarbie
aw hunn.. i think we ALLL go through that.
guys dont care about details, or what color the flowers are, or how high the ceiling in the rh is (trust me, mine made it clear that he doesnt care lol)
thats why u have US!!!!
he loves u, hes just not a gay.
couldnt have said it better
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If it makes you feel any better, FH and I have been fighting since Thursday. I haven't heard from him all weekend.
Windy
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Posted by grkbarbie
aw hunn.. i think we ALLL go through that.
guys dont care about details, or what color the flowers are, or how high the ceiling in the rh is (trust me, mine made it clear that he doesnt care lol)
thats why u have US!!!!
he loves u, hes just not a gay.
Haha that made me laugh!
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FH and I are going through the same thing. I am trying not to stress about it too, they just don't realize exactly how impt it is that every since detail be amazing.
FH once told me that he worries I am too concerned with the little details that if something goes wrong it will ruin the entire day for me.
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If it makes you feel any better, FH and I have been fighting since Thursday. I haven't heard from him all weekend.
No that def doesnt make me feel better, I'm sorry.
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they're just so irritating sometimes
xela
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I had that same exact fight with FH Saturday night.
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Details are not a priority and most men, they want things to remain how they are now... just married as a title. They don't want the responsibility of making the choices and some of the stress that comes with it. We ladies end up absorbing most of it. But Barb is right, thats why this board and all of us on it on here. We can help with details and let them enjoy the ride. Feel free to vent and ask Qs and get opinions. Sometimes you really need him to be onboard, but with small stuff, if he doesn't care... let your girlfriends help.
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I dont think guys understand all the planning, stress etc that goes into it. They just want good food and a decent place. I wouldnt get so upset. I am sure he cares about the wedding and the honeymoon,but like most guys, isnt going to stress about the details.
elp6421
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Urgh.. I know what you are going through!! Men just do not understand!!
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does anyone want my fh?? !!! lol
he is soooooooooo involved in every detail of this wedding!!!!
