I dont know what to do....

Last night my bridemaids and i we to go chose the dresses. Well I talked to my brother late at night and i told him we have choosen a dress for them. I kinda felt that he was upset with and i asked about it. I am having to OF Honor people. My best friend is a matron of honor and my brother is my man of honor. He said he was confused about his role. I didnt think to see if he wanted to come but its not like he is going to be in a dress. and I think he would have more fun dressing me up then them. Now we are supposed be going on Sunday to start dressing shopping for me and he is going to be away this week. so a bunch of us were going to go and pick out the best ones and bring him the following week to have him put his opinion on the best ones. I dont know if we should do that anymore?

HELP PLEASE!!!!

i don't think he needed to be there to pick the girls dresses ... but depending on the type of guy he is, maybe he wanted to see pictures of the dresses you were thinking of before the decision was made? maybe he just wanted to give a thumbs up to whatever you were thinking, so he felt involved?

and i agree with the other girls, its only 1 week -- wait until he's back before you go dress shopping.

he's obviously a big part of your life and you two are very close, other wise he would just be a groomsman on your FH's side.