I don't know why but I am stressing today!!!

I am not sure why but for some reason today my brain will not stop thinking about $$$$$$$$$$ for the wedding, where it is all going to come from, how much are we putting away, will we be able to save enough without going into debt!!!!! Uggggggggg

Just had to vent...:

I get like this every so often. It sux but it will get done.

I think its a natural reaction when planning an event like this or going into some kind of big purchase.

I did the same thing with the wedding, I went through the same thing when we were buying our house, I did the same thing a month ago when we were paying for our son's christening (thats fun... it's like paying for a wedding all over again)

if you stay level headed though and within realistic means (i'm not saying not to splurge on what you think would make your day more special)... but remember, it all works out in the end. It seems like a lot now because everyone seems to want their payments all at the same time.

I know how you feel! FH just started a new job and just got a paycheck but I feel like every conversation we've had in the past few weeks have been about how he's going to save money for the wedding and still have money for himself. I make way less than him but I really don't want to find another job before the wedding since I have all my vacation time banked. I also really love my job even though it doesn't pay enough. So lately I've been stressing that I'm not gonna make enough of a contribution. Stupid money!

OH I already have a second job, 2 nights a week, wed and sat nights i hate it but I know i have to do it till the wedding comes around. FH needs to find another one! lol He is in the union and does well but the whole lay off thing and then being put on another job scares the $)(*#@ out of me and I worry that it is going to happen every day and then the house bills on top of everything! my stomach is turning...