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I dont like FBIL's g/f!

cds58019 Posted:

I dont like FBIL's g/f!

They arent really 'officially' dating but they might as well be cause they do everything like a couple. Anyway...there's no one reason that I dont like her but I just feel like she's not right for him. And he recently said something to FH that makes me think he's settling for anyone now. He's 2 years older then FH and he said he feels like he's going to 'miss the boat' if he keeps being so picky about girls. She's an OK girl I guess but I just dont feel she's right for him. She's 7 years younger then him (Not that Im judging b/c FH is 5 years older then me) but I feel like they are in 2 seperate stages of their lives.

Plus he doesn't act the same when he's around her. Whatever.....I just needed to vent to someone. Vent over!
november152008 Posted:

Re: I dont like FBIL's g/f!

maybe you have a single friend who is better for him just an idea

cds58019 Posted:

Re: I dont like FBIL's g/f!

Yeah, I've already tried but they didn't work out.

kkss1419 Posted:

Re: I dont like FBIL's g/f!

I know how you feel. I had a similar problem with my brother's ex. She was a nice girl, but just not good for him. She was lazy and unmotivated and she made my brother the same way. Thankfully they broke up. Then I felt bad about being happy about it! I just thought he deserved better.

kkss1419 Posted:

Re: I dont like FBIL's g/f!


Posted by cds58019

Yeah, I've already tried but they didn't work out.



What about an online dating site? Maybe he can see what/who is out there and will feel less pressure to settle. FH & I met online!

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