I don't understand people...
There's this girl I've known since kindergarten, we used to be really good friends up until I'd say about 5 or 6 years ago. She got too busy with her other group of friends and her boyfriend, whatever. I haven't hung out with her in about 4 years. She calls me out of the blue about a month ago, not to see how I am, but because she needs something. OK fine...I answer her question I tried to help her we started chatting a little bit, she TOLD me she better be invited to the wedding. So I tried to nicely tell her that she wasn't going to be invited because I'm only inviting family and close friends and I haven't really seen her or heard from her in years. She tells me that shouldn't matter I should be inviting her anyway because Ive known her for so long. Whatever, I said I'm sorry she felt that way but I couldn't afford to invite everyone I've ever known just because i know them.
So fast forward to yesterday, FH calls me to tell me that while he's in training for his job, this girl is there (now keep in mind they've met maybe twice in the 5 1/2 years Ive been with FH) she proceeds to tell him that she spoke to me and I told her I was going to invite her but our family list was too long and we should make room for her. WTH????? WHO DOES THIS????
Maybe it's just me but if I was crazy enough to even ask someone if I was invited to their wedding and they tried to nicely tell me no, granted I might be hurt, but then I'd refelct on WHYYYYY I wasn't invited, ask myself if I've really been a part of their lives to warrant an invite, not plead my case to their FH and hope he'll invite me.
Ok vent over...just had to get that out.
So fast forward to yesterday, FH calls me to tell me that while he's in training for his job, this girl is there (now keep in mind they've met maybe twice in the 5 1/2 years Ive been with FH) she proceeds to tell him that she spoke to me and I told her I was going to invite her but our family list was too long and we should make room for her. WTH????? WHO DOES THIS????
Maybe it's just me but if I was crazy enough to even ask someone if I was invited to their wedding and they tried to nicely tell me no, granted I might be hurt, but then I'd refelct on WHYYYYY I wasn't invited, ask myself if I've really been a part of their lives to warrant an invite, not plead my case to their FH and hope he'll invite me.
Ok vent over...just had to get that out.
